"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Invitation to go out with girl including boyfriend

radix

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The other day I ran into a fun goth-style girl while waiting for a rainstorm to end after visiting the supermarket, I opened her and we chatted for a while. It turned out we had quite a bit in common and ended up swapping numbers saying we'd go to a concert together sometime. Through SMS I suggest going to some concert but she's busy the night of the concert so I don't contact her for a while. Two weeks later I suggest to go out somewhere to get a drink later this week, giving my email address since convo is easier that way. She responds enthousiastically by email and within 5 minutes or so but saying she's too busy this week, but I should come to a concert she's going to next week. I quote: "I'm going there with my boyfriend and another friend but you can come too".

So what would you guys do? I've never gamed a chick with her boyfriend present. I think I'll go anyway just for the fun of it, any hints about what to do? I know that's a vague question but I'm interested in how you'd handle the situation.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Double

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.....but you can come too".
wooohoooo u lucky guy are allowed to come! sorry but i would have more self respect than that.
 

radix

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Yeah it feels a bit like that Double. But I've got a working solution figured out: I'll invite some friends as well including some hot girls, should be even more fun that way :)
 
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