"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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LOL. I'm sure being a bit older they might have figured you had more money than a typical broke college kid. I went to the university level a but later at 27 years old. Being skinny and baby faced I looked very young for my age and many of the 20 year olds were shocked how old I was.

DId you play the look young for the age card too?
haha yeh I did play that card.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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haha yeh I did play that card.
The biggest issue with me is maturity and the stuff that comes out of their mouths and attitudes at times. WHy at times I'd pick an HB9 39 year old over them.
 

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Hey man thanks for the compliment and that is how I look today. To be honest its rough out here in the DMV. Its either feast or famine and right now its famine with the ladies. The last cute chick I smashed was July and she lives in a different state. I smashed a 3/10 around August but that doesn't count lol.

It is difficult to get any quality chicks if you are a black guy living in an affluent area. Black women in affluent areas are the most picky. Even poor black chicks are very difficult to get. White chicks will only mess with you if you are deep in the social circle. As a black guy you not only have to be handsome, you have to have status and social proof to get anything.

When I go out West, or down south or even NY I do very well. But the DC area is tough. The guys that come out of this area have the best game because we have been playing on hard mode our whole lives. I heard its equally difficult to get laid in LA.

You need money to even be considered a short term or long term prospect in the DMV. There is so much govt money out here. There are also many highly paid professionals out here that girls standards are sky high. I won't spend it on them but you need to have a place and decent whip. I never trick ever. But having a nice apartment always helps.

Even though its famine season for me I am the happiest I have ever been. I have no distractions and I am actually accomplishing goals that I always had. Girlfriends distract me from actually being productive. I definitely resonate with temporary MGTOW.
I guess you have never been to Toronto then? I think Toronto is worst than DMV.

At least you know if you change locations you can do very well.

The 3/10 counts if she had a big bootie. Did she?
 

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I guess you have never been to Toronto then? I think Toronto is worst than DMV.

At least you know if you change locations you can do very well.

The 3/10 counts if she had a big bootie. Did she?
yes bro I have heard that Toronto is the absolute worst lol. Her azz was average.
 

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yes bro I have heard that Toronto is the absolute worst lol. Her azz was average.
Yeah, especially if you are black. Too many asians or minority ethnic girls here and these types are usually more sexually racist than white chicks are. You got an asian minority problem where you are at too?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey man thanks for the compliment and that is how I look today. To be honest its rough out here in the DMV. Its either feast or famine and right now its famine with the ladies. The last cute chick I smashed was July and she lives in a different state. I smashed a 3/10 around August but that doesn't count lol.

It is difficult to get any quality chicks if you are a black guy living in an affluent area. Black women in affluent areas are the most picky. Even poor black chicks are very difficult to get. White chicks will only mess with you if you are deep in the social circle. As a black guy you not only have to be handsome, you have to have status and social proof to get anything.

When I go out West, or down south or even NY I do very well. But the DC area is tough. The guys that come out of this area have the best game because we have been playing on hard mode our whole lives. I heard its equally difficult to get laid in LA.

You need money to even be considered a short term or long term prospect in the DMV. There is so much govt money out here. There are also many highly paid professionals out here that girls standards are sky high. I won't spend it on them but you need to have a place and decent whip. I never trick ever. But having a nice apartment always helps.

Even though its famine season for me I am the happiest I have ever been. I have no distractions and I am actually accomplishing goals that I always had. Girlfriends distract me from actually being productive. I definitely resonate with temporary MGTOW.
What are you still doing in a shythole like that apparently is?
 

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What are you still doing in a shythole like that apparently is?
Fear. Im afraid to leave my comfort zone and move out west. I have a semi stable job out here. I need to get over this fear. This year is the year I will start making concrete plans to leave my state.
 

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Met girl (been talking a few weeks) in China. Did something and pissed her off... in bed she said she was a "stupid girl" for wanting my sexual touch etc, even though I really pissed her off.

As she was approaching orgasm I whisper in her ear...
"You are a stupid girl" and she exploded in that instant moment.

heh, girls are weird.
 

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I ve heard again and again that US, Canada, UK and Australia have the b1tchiest women. I d be interested in what guys not from those countries think.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Met girl (been talking a few weeks) in China. Did something and pissed her off... in bed she said she was a "stupid girl" for wanting my sexual touch etc, even though I really pissed her off.

As she was approaching orgasm I whisper in her ear...
"You are a stupid girl" and she exploded in that instant moment.

heh, girls are weird.
How do you get the time, and the money to do all this traveling all over?
 

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I ve heard again and again that US, Canada, UK and Australia have the b1tchiest women.
Yes. Exactly right, in the right order
(I am American, immigrated away 10yr ago)
 

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How do you get the time, and the money to do all this traveling all over?
Work and personal time.
We get 5wk paid vacations here
I actually have a carear, job, money

You live with mom and sell phone cases at a flea market.
 

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We have to remember that in microdoses ladies tricky ways are amusing. My GF and I were binging TV while sick. I handed her a giant pack of chips after I had a few and she polished off the lot. And then told me we had shared them. so for the next couple of days I kept sneaking her food and telling her that we had shared it

of course the trick is to find a good one so you get the micro dose not the full venom
 

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Work and personal time.
We get 5wk paid vacations here
I actually have a carear, job, money

You live with mom and sell phone cases at a flea market.
Jobs in the states dont give 5 weeks paid vacation unless you been there many years.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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