"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mac_tonik

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this is my first post here, forgive me if this turns out to be a rant....

so i got blown off again last week. By a girl that i've known for about 3 months but finally worked up the cajones to "ask* her out." I realize i've been beating myself up - i'm 21 - relatively good looking, college educated, have a great job, an ex athlete and avid bodybuilder (have receieved my share of compliments from females). I've probably been on 3 dates my entire life and have been shot down 97% of times by women of all shapes and sizes - Usually just before i close the first date. I stumbled on this site from another message board and have spent over 3 hours here now and i can honestly say i had an epiphany.

I HAVE BEEN DOING EVERYTHING WRONG :(

Of every little piece of advice i've read on this board i realize that i have been doing the exact opposite. I want to stress i'm a pragmatist - nothing is gospel to me till i see it work. But my logical and emotional sides are in agreeance with the way of the DJ. It is the forgotten path - our biological impretive. Its about to be 2006 and men, including me have been turned in to golorified p***sies. Conditioned by day time t.v and cheesy romantic movies. We are reduced to grovelling lap dogs, rolling over for the slightest affection from the female persusasion.

It is my goals to study to path of the DJ and find the truth in it, over the next few months i'll study and apply what i have learned here and add my own experiences as many others have. Maybe we can once again take back what was ours - DOMINANCE.

I sent a heart felt thank you to everyone who has contributed to the content of this site.

mac_tonik
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well we won't have to worry about what guessing your New Years resolution is...

Welcome - now get to work. :)
 

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mac_tonik,

Welcome. You`ve embarked on a journey that too few are aware is open to them.

This is kind of like an odyssey where instead of finding the golden fleece at the end, you realize that you had it in your possession the entire time. You may not understand this right now but later on you will.

Remember that there is no DJ path or way. There is only YOUR DJ PATH AND WAY. Read the DJ Bible, the forum posts, etc. and then test and keep what works for you and your evolving DJ style.

Cheers,
Mav
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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