"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mac_tonik

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this is my first post here, forgive me if this turns out to be a rant....

so i got blown off again last week. By a girl that i've known for about 3 months but finally worked up the cajones to "ask* her out." I realize i've been beating myself up - i'm 21 - relatively good looking, college educated, have a great job, an ex athlete and avid bodybuilder (have receieved my share of compliments from females). I've probably been on 3 dates my entire life and have been shot down 97% of times by women of all shapes and sizes - Usually just before i close the first date. I stumbled on this site from another message board and have spent over 3 hours here now and i can honestly say i had an epiphany.

I HAVE BEEN DOING EVERYTHING WRONG :(

Of every little piece of advice i've read on this board i realize that i have been doing the exact opposite. I want to stress i'm a pragmatist - nothing is gospel to me till i see it work. But my logical and emotional sides are in agreeance with the way of the DJ. It is the forgotten path - our biological impretive. Its about to be 2006 and men, including me have been turned in to golorified p***sies. Conditioned by day time t.v and cheesy romantic movies. We are reduced to grovelling lap dogs, rolling over for the slightest affection from the female persusasion.

It is my goals to study to path of the DJ and find the truth in it, over the next few months i'll study and apply what i have learned here and add my own experiences as many others have. Maybe we can once again take back what was ours - DOMINANCE.

I sent a heart felt thank you to everyone who has contributed to the content of this site.

mac_tonik
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well we won't have to worry about what guessing your New Years resolution is...

Welcome - now get to work. :)
 

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mac_tonik,

Welcome. You`ve embarked on a journey that too few are aware is open to them.

This is kind of like an odyssey where instead of finding the golden fleece at the end, you realize that you had it in your possession the entire time. You may not understand this right now but later on you will.

Remember that there is no DJ path or way. There is only YOUR DJ PATH AND WAY. Read the DJ Bible, the forum posts, etc. and then test and keep what works for you and your evolving DJ style.

Cheers,
Mav
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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