"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dawg89

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if u messed up da introduction to a girl and like say ur ran outta things ta say would it still b possible ta talk to her or get her interest
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Steven Seagal

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Sure, why the heck not.
 

aBAzLLnA

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How would you ever run out of things to say? Search the forum for conversation skills/tips. There are a lot of good posts out there.
 

LikRetsam

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Calling grammar police. Yeah. It's another one.
 

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One time I totally f*cked up an intro to these 2 chicks, they didn't really wanna talk to me after that. So i went and talked to some hotter chicks, sucks for the first two ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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jonny football hero

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Not if you talk how you type. However, just do it. What you got to lose.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by dawg89
if u messed up da introduction to a girl and like say ur ran outta things ta say would it still b possible ta talk to her or get her interest
Why do you children talk like this?? Is this what my tax dollars is doing?? Teaching you how to speek engrish rong?? Snap yo!!:rolleyes:
 

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Is this what my tax dollars is doing??
Are you seriously paying taxes already?

But, the ****ty grammar/spelling has to stop. It just reflects on your intellect.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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idiot_boyfriend

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Originally posted by dawg89
if u messed up da introduction to a girl and like say ur ran outta things ta say would it still b possible ta talk to her or get her interest
Cover your face everytime you see her again.





If you ran out of things to say and want to leave the conversation before it gets awkward, try, "well, it's been nice talking to you" or, "nice seeing you again".

How did you mess it up? Did you insult her? Did you hurt her?

As long as you didn't do that, you can still talk to her and get her interested. If a girl judges people on first impressions, you might as well forget her since you will never be able to alter her opinion of you again. You don't want a girl like that.
 

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thanx idiot boyfrend u da only 1 that helped me and im sick of u other fukinn assh0les only replyin about me grammmar dis is da way i talk next time intead of beiing a dik offer some useful advice
 

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thanx idiot boyfrend u da only 1 that helped me and im sick of u other fukinn assh0les only replyin about me grammmar dis is da way i talk next time intead of beiing a dik offer some useful advice
You mean to say:

"Thanks idiot boyfriend, you are the only one that helped me. I'm sick of you other ****ing *******s only replying about my grammar. This is the way I talk. Next time instead of being a ****, offer some useful advice."

There, I helped you, now here's some useful advice: Learn how to spell.
 

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Originally posted by dawg89
thanx idiot boyfrend u da only 1 that helped me and im sick of u other fukinn assh0les only replyin about me grammmar dis is da way i talk next time intead of beiing a dik offer some useful advice
Ok d00d. You cant even type a semi understandable sentence. Dont be such a hardc0r3 ganst3r online yo. This is useful advice. STOP BEING A RETARD AND LEARN HOW TO SPELL!!! Jackass.

aBAzLLnA: I have a job so i suppose. It was suppose to be a joke but whatever...Ima go leern how to speel so i can teech dis homie sum engrish..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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