"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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intresting question.

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Why the fook is it a mans natural instinct to worship the girl he likes?

Now that i got that out... I am suffering from one-itus right now and I need help getting over it. This girl that I have hung out with the past week or so was supposed to hang out with me tonight. Avoided my calls and hasnt called back.
I know that in order to be a DJ I have to not care and just next her... but I cant im obsessed with her too much. pls help a AFC out.

The intrest level is totaly whacked. I am highly into this girl and she is flacky. Any advice..?

How do I keep my self from thinking that she is better than me? I need jedi mind trix.. please. (wow and i hate starwars)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Go approach 10 hot women. If/when they reject you, you will have that to think about instead of some flake. And also you will be a much better DJ in the process.
 
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Star Wars rocks! Lots of good lessons in there Dawg.

Anyway, i think the best thing you can do is to understand why she is the way she is. She is an AW, you say so yourself.

Read what an AW is all about by Pook in the DJ Bible. It makes some good points about these types of girls.
 
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Thx dapper sounds... well umm sound.
 
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If you respected yourself - you would not allow someone to treat you like that.

So - because this girl is hot - you allow your own self respect to drop.

Think about that.

Do you think she respects any man that does not respect himself? You've got to treat her like you would anyone else - and that includes blowing her off if she disrespects you.

You value her above yourself.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Holy sh#t u hit it on the head ur the fu$ing man. honestly. I am so new to this I am posting a thing that i think is the biggest first step in becoming a DJ. respecting ur self over women.
 
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Say:

HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT.

HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT.

HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT.

HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT.

HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT.


Works for me.
 
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FORGET ABOUT HER DUDE any girl that makes you think you have no respect for yourself is not worthed there are millions of girls out there. I know because I'm trying to get over this chick that I liked but I'm like I gonna hang out with my boys and go meet some hot chicks downtown remember ANY GIRL THAT MAKES YOU FEEL LIKE CRAP IS NOT WORTHED!!!
 
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