"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why the fook is it a mans natural instinct to worship the girl he likes?

Now that i got that out... I am suffering from one-itus right now and I need help getting over it. This girl that I have hung out with the past week or so was supposed to hang out with me tonight. Avoided my calls and hasnt called back.
I know that in order to be a DJ I have to not care and just next her... but I cant im obsessed with her too much. pls help a AFC out.

The intrest level is totaly whacked. I am highly into this girl and she is flacky. Any advice..?

How do I keep my self from thinking that she is better than me? I need jedi mind trix.. please. (wow and i hate starwars)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Go approach 10 hot women. If/when they reject you, you will have that to think about instead of some flake. And also you will be a much better DJ in the process.
 
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Star Wars rocks! Lots of good lessons in there Dawg.

Anyway, i think the best thing you can do is to understand why she is the way she is. She is an AW, you say so yourself.

Read what an AW is all about by Pook in the DJ Bible. It makes some good points about these types of girls.
 
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Thx dapper sounds... well umm sound.
 
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If you respected yourself - you would not allow someone to treat you like that.

So - because this girl is hot - you allow your own self respect to drop.

Think about that.

Do you think she respects any man that does not respect himself? You've got to treat her like you would anyone else - and that includes blowing her off if she disrespects you.

You value her above yourself.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Holy sh#t u hit it on the head ur the fu$ing man. honestly. I am so new to this I am posting a thing that i think is the biggest first step in becoming a DJ. respecting ur self over women.
 
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Say:

HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT.

HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT.

HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT.

HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT.

HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT.


Works for me.
 
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FORGET ABOUT HER DUDE any girl that makes you think you have no respect for yourself is not worthed there are millions of girls out there. I know because I'm trying to get over this chick that I liked but I'm like I gonna hang out with my boys and go meet some hot chicks downtown remember ANY GIRL THAT MAKES YOU FEEL LIKE CRAP IS NOT WORTHED!!!
 
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