"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why the fook is it a mans natural instinct to worship the girl he likes?

Now that i got that out... I am suffering from one-itus right now and I need help getting over it. This girl that I have hung out with the past week or so was supposed to hang out with me tonight. Avoided my calls and hasnt called back.
I know that in order to be a DJ I have to not care and just next her... but I cant im obsessed with her too much. pls help a AFC out.

The intrest level is totaly whacked. I am highly into this girl and she is flacky. Any advice..?

How do I keep my self from thinking that she is better than me? I need jedi mind trix.. please. (wow and i hate starwars)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Go approach 10 hot women. If/when they reject you, you will have that to think about instead of some flake. And also you will be a much better DJ in the process.
 
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Star Wars rocks! Lots of good lessons in there Dawg.

Anyway, i think the best thing you can do is to understand why she is the way she is. She is an AW, you say so yourself.

Read what an AW is all about by Pook in the DJ Bible. It makes some good points about these types of girls.
 
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Thx dapper sounds... well umm sound.
 
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If you respected yourself - you would not allow someone to treat you like that.

So - because this girl is hot - you allow your own self respect to drop.

Think about that.

Do you think she respects any man that does not respect himself? You've got to treat her like you would anyone else - and that includes blowing her off if she disrespects you.

You value her above yourself.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Holy sh#t u hit it on the head ur the fu$ing man. honestly. I am so new to this I am posting a thing that i think is the biggest first step in becoming a DJ. respecting ur self over women.
 
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Say:

HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT.

HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT.

HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT.

HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT.

HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT.


Works for me.
 
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FORGET ABOUT HER DUDE any girl that makes you think you have no respect for yourself is not worthed there are millions of girls out there. I know because I'm trying to get over this chick that I liked but I'm like I gonna hang out with my boys and go meet some hot chicks downtown remember ANY GIRL THAT MAKES YOU FEEL LIKE CRAP IS NOT WORTHED!!!
 
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