"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Intrest level drops

PeterCrouch

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This gal im intrested in has lost a lil intrest in me after meeting some guy at a party last night!

Shes cancelled seeing me pretty much "saying we cant come down in october as its our friends bday and we need to spend our money on that"

What are good ways of getting a gals intrest level back up to where it was before?

Cheers
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You pretty much need to move on with your life - thats really the only way.
 

wjh

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Yup. Have a life outside of your relationship and you will either 1.) move on and not care about her, or 2.) get her interest in you to jump back up.

but who cares? if a girl lost interest in me I'd just move on to another girl. I don't see a point in being with a girl, or even TRYING to talk to a girl, if she isn't interested in me.
 
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