"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Intrest level drops

PeterCrouch

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This gal im intrested in has lost a lil intrest in me after meeting some guy at a party last night!

Shes cancelled seeing me pretty much "saying we cant come down in october as its our friends bday and we need to spend our money on that"

What are good ways of getting a gals intrest level back up to where it was before?

Cheers
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You pretty much need to move on with your life - thats really the only way.
 

wjh

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Yup. Have a life outside of your relationship and you will either 1.) move on and not care about her, or 2.) get her interest in you to jump back up.

but who cares? if a girl lost interest in me I'd just move on to another girl. I don't see a point in being with a girl, or even TRYING to talk to a girl, if she isn't interested in me.
 
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