"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Intrest level drops

PeterCrouch

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This gal im intrested in has lost a lil intrest in me after meeting some guy at a party last night!

Shes cancelled seeing me pretty much "saying we cant come down in october as its our friends bday and we need to spend our money on that"

What are good ways of getting a gals intrest level back up to where it was before?

Cheers
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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flexion_

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You pretty much need to move on with your life - thats really the only way.
 

wjh

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Yup. Have a life outside of your relationship and you will either 1.) move on and not care about her, or 2.) get her interest in you to jump back up.

but who cares? if a girl lost interest in me I'd just move on to another girl. I don't see a point in being with a girl, or even TRYING to talk to a girl, if she isn't interested in me.
 
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