"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Intrest level drops

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PeterCrouch

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This gal im intrested in has lost a lil intrest in me after meeting some guy at a party last night!

Shes cancelled seeing me pretty much "saying we cant come down in october as its our friends bday and we need to spend our money on that"

What are good ways of getting a gals intrest level back up to where it was before?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You pretty much need to move on with your life - thats really the only way.
 
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Yup. Have a life outside of your relationship and you will either 1.) move on and not care about her, or 2.) get her interest in you to jump back up.

but who cares? if a girl lost interest in me I'd just move on to another girl. I don't see a point in being with a girl, or even TRYING to talk to a girl, if she isn't interested in me.
 
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