You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You know, it doesn't bother me, I just don't like shyt talkers.Originally posted by Rockadeimis
jprjrjr, for a big strong guy, you sure seem sensitive to this issue. Does it really bother you that much?
NAH I DON'T JERK OFF TO TRANSVESTITES....LOLOriginally posted by zolo
the first one and the two spring break pics are me
the rest are my buds
ugly, what ever, you are jerking off to them right now
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Your love muscle isn't big enough to scratch...fvcking homo..talking about his dyckOriginally posted by zolo
hey, post the pics for all to see and judge.
I'll tell you what, they sure are cuter than the ones in the pics you posted
besides if your little white we we was have as big as your arms maybe you would get some nice white tail too.
My arm muscles may not be as big as yours, but my love muscle is 5X the sixe of yours
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Btw...you're a fvcking wimp..upstairs, and downstairs....Originally posted by jprjrjr
Your love muscle isn't big enough to scratch...fvcking homo..talking about his dyck
LOL
Yeah, I have almost 300 posts, but I'm a troll because I call bullshty...Most of the guys on this forum are cool, but we have our WIMPS who are too scared to post their own pics.Originally posted by So Many Ways
Guys, quit feeding the troll with the inferiority complex.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.