Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You know, it doesn't bother me, I just don't like shyt talkers.Originally posted by Rockadeimis
jprjrjr, for a big strong guy, you sure seem sensitive to this issue. Does it really bother you that much?
NAH I DON'T JERK OFF TO TRANSVESTITES....LOLOriginally posted by zolo
the first one and the two spring break pics are me
the rest are my buds
ugly, what ever, you are jerking off to them right now
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Your love muscle isn't big enough to scratch...fvcking homo..talking about his dyckOriginally posted by zolo
hey, post the pics for all to see and judge.
I'll tell you what, they sure are cuter than the ones in the pics you posted
besides if your little white we we was have as big as your arms maybe you would get some nice white tail too.
My arm muscles may not be as big as yours, but my love muscle is 5X the sixe of yours
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Btw...you're a fvcking wimp..upstairs, and downstairs....Originally posted by jprjrjr
Your love muscle isn't big enough to scratch...fvcking homo..talking about his dyck
LOL
Yeah, I have almost 300 posts, but I'm a troll because I call bullshty...Most of the guys on this forum are cool, but we have our WIMPS who are too scared to post their own pics.Originally posted by So Many Ways
Guys, quit feeding the troll with the inferiority complex.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.