"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Intimidated by her piercing blue eyes....

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First off, this is NOT a rant or an excuse not to approach. This girl is way too young for me and already has a b/f.


THere is a co-worker of mine who has cute facial features, but I would not call her beautiful.

However....

She has these piercing light blue eyes that just initimidate the hell out of me and make her look like a HB9.

Funny how attractive eyes can make the world of difference.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I went shopping for some sunglasses. There was this really cute blonde working there. When I saw her eyes, they were the most icey, cold, blue eyes I had ever seen. Regardless to say, I started melting from the inside and I fvcked it up.
 
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I remember one time I was going into my local YMCA, and there's this blonde girl just waiting near the door. I didn't see her eyes. I decided to make eye contact with her just for fun to see her reaction, her eyes meet mine and it was the bluest eyes I've ever seen. Felt like they pierced my heart. I looked away right away, didn't really know why but her eyes intimidated me.
 
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are chicks into blue eyes?

coz I have brown hair and pale blue eyes, its really contrasty and when I see dudes with similar style to mine they look like freak ghosts
 
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man, it's a pain to have dark brown eyes. seriously. brown eyes are the most boring color you can get. they make your eyes look beady... and you never hear girls saying guys have amazing dark brown eyes.

at least hazel eyes are nice on dark skinned people... but dark brown...

oh well.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rho said:
are chicks into blue eyes?

coz I have brown hair and pale blue eyes, its really contrasty and when I see dudes with similar style to mine they look like freak ghosts
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Yes, consider yourself lucky.
 
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Michele said:
man, it's a pain to have dark brown eyes. seriously. brown eyes are the most boring color you can get. they make your eyes look beady... and you never hear girls saying guys have amazing dark brown eyes.

at least hazel eyes are nice on dark skinned people... but dark brown...

oh well.
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Oh man I LOVE girls with dark brown eyes! They're so fu'cking adorable! It's like they're doing puppy-eyes 24/7!

Lol uh, btw, in poland everyone's eyes are blue and I hear that brown eyes will totally get you laid over there, haha! It's all to do with being exotic I suspect.
 
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Friend of mine has green, green eyes.
Crazy.
 
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this is the official AFC thread of chumps tripping over female eyes

the only time i would feel like i am in love with a girl's eyes is when im about to cvm inside her

live and learn
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I got weird brown eyes. Depending on the lighting I can go from straight brown to brown on the inner pupil with green and gold on the outter pupil no idea why that happens though.

Anyways, you just have to put on your DJ armor and let that "piercing gaze" bounce off". It takes more than eyes to make someone.
 
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Michele said:
man, it's a pain to have dark brown eyes. seriously. brown eyes are the most boring color you can get. they make your eyes look beady... and you never hear girls saying guys have amazing dark brown eyes.

at least hazel eyes are nice on dark skinned people... but dark brown...

oh well.
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You ever hear of this guy named George Clooney and how he gets panties so wet that they fall off because they're so heavy?

It's not about the color of the eyes, people. It's what emotions your eyes trigger. Brown eyes, blue, green, doesn't really matter if you can generate the right kind of facial expression and subsequently, the emotions in the ladies.
 
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stuka1939 said:
First off, this is NOT a rant or an excuse not to approach. This girl is way too young for me and already has a b/f.


THere is a co-worker of mine who has cute facial features, but I would not call her beautiful.

However....

She has these piercing light blue eyes that just initimidate the hell out of me and make her look like a HB9.

Funny how attractive eyes can make the world of difference.
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Oh man I LOVE girls with dark brown eyes! They're so fu'cking adorable! It's like they're doing puppy-eyes 24/7!

Lol uh, btw, in poland everyone's eyes are blue and I hear that brown eyes will totally get you laid over there, haha! It's all to do with being exotic I suspect.
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Yeah, having brown eyes as a guy is not necessarily a bad thing because girls with light colored eyes usually dig guys with dark eyes (opposites attract).

However, I think MOST guys prefer females with blue or green eyes. Studies have been done that even state blue-eyed males PREFER blue-eyed females.
 
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stuka1939 said:
Yeah, having brown eyes as a guy is not necessarily a bad thing because girls with light colored eyes usually dig guys with dark eyes (opposites attract).

However, I think MOST guys prefer females with blue or green eyes. Studies have been done that even state blue-eyed males PREFER blue-eyed females.
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What color eyes do the Moors have?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=-iYYZYkM3s0
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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