"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Intimidated by her piercing blue eyes....

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First off, this is NOT a rant or an excuse not to approach. This girl is way too young for me and already has a b/f.


THere is a co-worker of mine who has cute facial features, but I would not call her beautiful.

However....

She has these piercing light blue eyes that just initimidate the hell out of me and make her look like a HB9.

Funny how attractive eyes can make the world of difference.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I went shopping for some sunglasses. There was this really cute blonde working there. When I saw her eyes, they were the most icey, cold, blue eyes I had ever seen. Regardless to say, I started melting from the inside and I fvcked it up.
 
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I remember one time I was going into my local YMCA, and there's this blonde girl just waiting near the door. I didn't see her eyes. I decided to make eye contact with her just for fun to see her reaction, her eyes meet mine and it was the bluest eyes I've ever seen. Felt like they pierced my heart. I looked away right away, didn't really know why but her eyes intimidated me.
 
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are chicks into blue eyes?

coz I have brown hair and pale blue eyes, its really contrasty and when I see dudes with similar style to mine they look like freak ghosts
 
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man, it's a pain to have dark brown eyes. seriously. brown eyes are the most boring color you can get. they make your eyes look beady... and you never hear girls saying guys have amazing dark brown eyes.

at least hazel eyes are nice on dark skinned people... but dark brown...

oh well.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rho said:
are chicks into blue eyes?

coz I have brown hair and pale blue eyes, its really contrasty and when I see dudes with similar style to mine they look like freak ghosts
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Yes, consider yourself lucky.
 
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Michele said:
man, it's a pain to have dark brown eyes. seriously. brown eyes are the most boring color you can get. they make your eyes look beady... and you never hear girls saying guys have amazing dark brown eyes.

at least hazel eyes are nice on dark skinned people... but dark brown...

oh well.
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Oh man I LOVE girls with dark brown eyes! They're so fu'cking adorable! It's like they're doing puppy-eyes 24/7!

Lol uh, btw, in poland everyone's eyes are blue and I hear that brown eyes will totally get you laid over there, haha! It's all to do with being exotic I suspect.
 
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Friend of mine has green, green eyes.
Crazy.
 
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this is the official AFC thread of chumps tripping over female eyes

the only time i would feel like i am in love with a girl's eyes is when im about to cvm inside her

live and learn
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I got weird brown eyes. Depending on the lighting I can go from straight brown to brown on the inner pupil with green and gold on the outter pupil no idea why that happens though.

Anyways, you just have to put on your DJ armor and let that "piercing gaze" bounce off". It takes more than eyes to make someone.
 
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Michele said:
man, it's a pain to have dark brown eyes. seriously. brown eyes are the most boring color you can get. they make your eyes look beady... and you never hear girls saying guys have amazing dark brown eyes.

at least hazel eyes are nice on dark skinned people... but dark brown...

oh well.
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You ever hear of this guy named George Clooney and how he gets panties so wet that they fall off because they're so heavy?

It's not about the color of the eyes, people. It's what emotions your eyes trigger. Brown eyes, blue, green, doesn't really matter if you can generate the right kind of facial expression and subsequently, the emotions in the ladies.
 
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stuka1939 said:
First off, this is NOT a rant or an excuse not to approach. This girl is way too young for me and already has a b/f.


THere is a co-worker of mine who has cute facial features, but I would not call her beautiful.

However....

She has these piercing light blue eyes that just initimidate the hell out of me and make her look like a HB9.

Funny how attractive eyes can make the world of difference.
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Gubby said:
Oh man I LOVE girls with dark brown eyes! They're so fu'cking adorable! It's like they're doing puppy-eyes 24/7!

Lol uh, btw, in poland everyone's eyes are blue and I hear that brown eyes will totally get you laid over there, haha! It's all to do with being exotic I suspect.
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Yeah, having brown eyes as a guy is not necessarily a bad thing because girls with light colored eyes usually dig guys with dark eyes (opposites attract).

However, I think MOST guys prefer females with blue or green eyes. Studies have been done that even state blue-eyed males PREFER blue-eyed females.
 
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stuka1939 said:
Yeah, having brown eyes as a guy is not necessarily a bad thing because girls with light colored eyes usually dig guys with dark eyes (opposites attract).

However, I think MOST guys prefer females with blue or green eyes. Studies have been done that even state blue-eyed males PREFER blue-eyed females.
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What color eyes do the Moors have?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=-iYYZYkM3s0
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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