"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Intimidated by her piercing blue eyes....

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First off, this is NOT a rant or an excuse not to approach. This girl is way too young for me and already has a b/f.


THere is a co-worker of mine who has cute facial features, but I would not call her beautiful.

However....

She has these piercing light blue eyes that just initimidate the hell out of me and make her look like a HB9.

Funny how attractive eyes can make the world of difference.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I went shopping for some sunglasses. There was this really cute blonde working there. When I saw her eyes, they were the most icey, cold, blue eyes I had ever seen. Regardless to say, I started melting from the inside and I fvcked it up.
 
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I remember one time I was going into my local YMCA, and there's this blonde girl just waiting near the door. I didn't see her eyes. I decided to make eye contact with her just for fun to see her reaction, her eyes meet mine and it was the bluest eyes I've ever seen. Felt like they pierced my heart. I looked away right away, didn't really know why but her eyes intimidated me.
 
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are chicks into blue eyes?

coz I have brown hair and pale blue eyes, its really contrasty and when I see dudes with similar style to mine they look like freak ghosts
 
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man, it's a pain to have dark brown eyes. seriously. brown eyes are the most boring color you can get. they make your eyes look beady... and you never hear girls saying guys have amazing dark brown eyes.

at least hazel eyes are nice on dark skinned people... but dark brown...

oh well.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rho said:
are chicks into blue eyes?

coz I have brown hair and pale blue eyes, its really contrasty and when I see dudes with similar style to mine they look like freak ghosts
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Yes, consider yourself lucky.
 
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Michele said:
man, it's a pain to have dark brown eyes. seriously. brown eyes are the most boring color you can get. they make your eyes look beady... and you never hear girls saying guys have amazing dark brown eyes.

at least hazel eyes are nice on dark skinned people... but dark brown...

oh well.
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Oh man I LOVE girls with dark brown eyes! They're so fu'cking adorable! It's like they're doing puppy-eyes 24/7!

Lol uh, btw, in poland everyone's eyes are blue and I hear that brown eyes will totally get you laid over there, haha! It's all to do with being exotic I suspect.
 
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Friend of mine has green, green eyes.
Crazy.
 
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this is the official AFC thread of chumps tripping over female eyes

the only time i would feel like i am in love with a girl's eyes is when im about to cvm inside her

live and learn
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I got weird brown eyes. Depending on the lighting I can go from straight brown to brown on the inner pupil with green and gold on the outter pupil no idea why that happens though.

Anyways, you just have to put on your DJ armor and let that "piercing gaze" bounce off". It takes more than eyes to make someone.
 
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Michele said:
man, it's a pain to have dark brown eyes. seriously. brown eyes are the most boring color you can get. they make your eyes look beady... and you never hear girls saying guys have amazing dark brown eyes.

at least hazel eyes are nice on dark skinned people... but dark brown...

oh well.
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You ever hear of this guy named George Clooney and how he gets panties so wet that they fall off because they're so heavy?

It's not about the color of the eyes, people. It's what emotions your eyes trigger. Brown eyes, blue, green, doesn't really matter if you can generate the right kind of facial expression and subsequently, the emotions in the ladies.
 
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stuka1939 said:
First off, this is NOT a rant or an excuse not to approach. This girl is way too young for me and already has a b/f.


THere is a co-worker of mine who has cute facial features, but I would not call her beautiful.

However....

She has these piercing light blue eyes that just initimidate the hell out of me and make her look like a HB9.

Funny how attractive eyes can make the world of difference.
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Oh man I LOVE girls with dark brown eyes! They're so fu'cking adorable! It's like they're doing puppy-eyes 24/7!

Lol uh, btw, in poland everyone's eyes are blue and I hear that brown eyes will totally get you laid over there, haha! It's all to do with being exotic I suspect.
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Yeah, having brown eyes as a guy is not necessarily a bad thing because girls with light colored eyes usually dig guys with dark eyes (opposites attract).

However, I think MOST guys prefer females with blue or green eyes. Studies have been done that even state blue-eyed males PREFER blue-eyed females.
 
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stuka1939 said:
Yeah, having brown eyes as a guy is not necessarily a bad thing because girls with light colored eyes usually dig guys with dark eyes (opposites attract).

However, I think MOST guys prefer females with blue or green eyes. Studies have been done that even state blue-eyed males PREFER blue-eyed females.
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What color eyes do the Moors have?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=-iYYZYkM3s0
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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