"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Haha...I do similar things in my mind...I basically create binary trees when I look back and view overall interactions with women and then when i get to certain "depths" of the tree my responses will evolve over time based on success/failure rates of various tactics or things I said...I am really good at pattern recognition and when I see the same pattern start to evolve in a woman I will kind of automatically go back to my memory bank where what I did worked on another woman who displayed the same type of pattern and do the same things again. And 80% of the time things end up going almost exactly the same as they did for the previous women with the same pattern, down to the same steps that i took and everything.

In the case where I didn't have success with this pattern of behavior, I go back and try and remember what I did in that situation and then do something different...if it ends up working then now i have another pattern of behavior "cracked" so to speak that I can use when I see it again.

I find it really funny how that works and how if you have had success with certain patterns of behavior you can almost go back and do the exact same thing to produce the exact same result even in different people.
This is exactly how I aspire to structure my Dating Life as a programmer. Hell my whole life in general
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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