"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Interracial dating

Do you mix?

  • Yes

    Votes: 69 70.4%
  • No

    Votes: 12 12.2%
  • I've never had the opportunity/ never thought about it

    Votes: 13 13.3%
  • I'm not sure if I would or not

    Votes: 4 4.1%

  • Total voters
    98

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How many of you guys do it, or have done it?

Personally, have no problems with it. My feelings are, if two people are into each other, it doesn't matter if one of them is a different race from the other.

My ethnic background is 50% British/ 50% German (so I'm as white as you could possibly get) yet a lot of African-American chicks are into me. I can't really explain why that is, but far be it from me to pass it up. :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sigh.....not again
 

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I see no problem in mixing, but I am latin, and in my personal experience, I have the most success with latin girls, cuz I get rejected a lot by american girls, but So far I have had only one rejection from a latin girl.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've never had sexual interest in an African American girl. I see ones that I think are good looking but the sexual attraction just isn't there.
 
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I'll mix with fine sluts. And fine beautiful booty endowed c*ck sucking experts at that.
 

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"I love from butter pecan to blackberry molass'
I don't discriminate, I regulate every shade of the ass"

~Big Punisher
 

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"Watch these rap niggaz get all up in your guts
French-vanilla, butter-pecan, chocolate-deluxe
Even caramel sundaes is gettin touched
And scooped in my ice cream truck, Wu tears it up" - Method Man


BUT

I LOOOOVEEE WHITE GIRLS... i dunno why... their bodies are just so diff from our girls...

IF YOU'RE WHITE... AND A GIRL...AND READING THIS... I LOVE U BABY... HIT ME UP...
 

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I don't use race as a measure of beauty. In every race, ethnicity, and culture, there are ugly women and hot women.

No race is "good-looking" or "ugly", because the variety is far too wide.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
I don't use race as a measure of beauty. In every race, ethnicity, and culture, there are ugly women and hot women.

No race is "good-looking" or "ugly", because the variety is far too wide.
Holy crap! I've been saying the EXACT same thing for as long as I remember. I'm glad someone shares my beliefs.
 

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For the people who said no...might I ask why? Or are you all too scared to answer?
 

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Originally posted by thederekeffect1
I have no problem with black people. I wish I was black. Then I could start dating white women again.
That's so Minnesotan.
 

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Originally posted by thederekeffect1
I have no problem with black people. I wish I was black. Then I could start dating white women again.

Hahahaha, poor baby. :)

As someone posted earlier... I regulate every shade of ass. :)

And as someone else said... they're are 'hot' women and 'ugly' women in every race/ethnicity/culture... women are women man... sample them all. :)

And I guess being Black/Hispanic gives me no grounds to discriminate.

AS
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by thederekeffect1
I have no problem with black people. I wish I was black. Then I could start dating white women again.
u r. Somewhere down the line. But judge not a woman by the color of her skin but by the size of her boobs/ass.
 

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Ok, I'll up the ante.

Would you marry and have kids with someone of a different race?
 

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First I don't even believe in the term "race", we're all human and the window dressing doesn't matter. My only criteria is wether she's hot, and interesting. If she is then she's on my list, end of story.
 

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:rolleyes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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