"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Interracial Dating

XSilverStarboyX

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Now Im sure this topic has been done to death, but for some reason Im just not attracted to my own race(cacausian). Like one thing Ive noticed is my confidence always went up when I dated girls of a different race. The girl I dated over the summer was Phillipino and my friends said theyve never seen my so confident. I wasnt taking crap from anyone during that time from anyone whether it was my parents or managers at work. It was awesome! So I know this is odd but it is anyone else this way with women? Not being attracted to your own race that is
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Zaraza

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Its natural.

Its possible you are attracted to other races because they have cultural upbringings/values that the Caucasian women you have met do not. Caucasian includes many different cultures. Are you simply not sexually attracted to any white woman? Its possible. We are human and we are picky.
 

Da Realist

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I say women are like cars: some give you more problems than others, but they all have the same basic parts.
 

HeyPachuco!

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I'm targeting a wide range of races as of lately (Mixed, Asian, Latino, Black) getting a HB out of each these races would be a great attachment to my CV. I've yet to see the Top 5 infamous PUA's pick up HB Black chicks LOL?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Warrior74

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XSilverStarboyX said:
Like one thing Ive noticed is my confidence always went up when I dated girls of a different race. The girl I dated over the summer was Phillipino and my friends said theyve never seen my so confident.
:rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Warrior74

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Everyone here missed the point hung up on the interracial part. (which is funny to see the responses for a whole different reason).

But they missed the most important part. Your confidence is based off of women. You have no real confidence, and if you have no woman, you have no confidence. This is the problem the OP needs to fix. This is more important than interracial dating, or dating at all. This is the essence of your manhood and your manhood should not be depended on another person...much less a female.
 

ElGuapo

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I find myself more attracted to Caucasian women and I'm not Caucasian. There are gorgeous women of every race, but the majority of women that I find attractive are Caucasian. I particularly love blond hair and blue eyes.

I guess some guys are just more attracted to the different features of other races. For me, I love the texture of white girls' hair. I also like their unique eye colors.
 
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