"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Interracial Dating

XSilverStarboyX

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Now Im sure this topic has been done to death, but for some reason Im just not attracted to my own race(cacausian). Like one thing Ive noticed is my confidence always went up when I dated girls of a different race. The girl I dated over the summer was Phillipino and my friends said theyve never seen my so confident. I wasnt taking crap from anyone during that time from anyone whether it was my parents or managers at work. It was awesome! So I know this is odd but it is anyone else this way with women? Not being attracted to your own race that is
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Zaraza

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Its natural.

Its possible you are attracted to other races because they have cultural upbringings/values that the Caucasian women you have met do not. Caucasian includes many different cultures. Are you simply not sexually attracted to any white woman? Its possible. We are human and we are picky.
 

Da Realist

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I say women are like cars: some give you more problems than others, but they all have the same basic parts.
 

HeyPachuco!

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I'm targeting a wide range of races as of lately (Mixed, Asian, Latino, Black) getting a HB out of each these races would be a great attachment to my CV. I've yet to see the Top 5 infamous PUA's pick up HB Black chicks LOL?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Warrior74

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XSilverStarboyX said:
Like one thing Ive noticed is my confidence always went up when I dated girls of a different race. The girl I dated over the summer was Phillipino and my friends said theyve never seen my so confident.
:rolleyes:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Warrior74

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Everyone here missed the point hung up on the interracial part. (which is funny to see the responses for a whole different reason).

But they missed the most important part. Your confidence is based off of women. You have no real confidence, and if you have no woman, you have no confidence. This is the problem the OP needs to fix. This is more important than interracial dating, or dating at all. This is the essence of your manhood and your manhood should not be depended on another person...much less a female.
 

ElGuapo

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I find myself more attracted to Caucasian women and I'm not Caucasian. There are gorgeous women of every race, but the majority of women that I find attractive are Caucasian. I particularly love blond hair and blue eyes.

I guess some guys are just more attracted to the different features of other races. For me, I love the texture of white girls' hair. I also like their unique eye colors.
 
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