"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Interracial Dating

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Now Im sure this topic has been done to death, but for some reason Im just not attracted to my own race(cacausian). Like one thing Ive noticed is my confidence always went up when I dated girls of a different race. The girl I dated over the summer was Phillipino and my friends said theyve never seen my so confident. I wasnt taking crap from anyone during that time from anyone whether it was my parents or managers at work. It was awesome! So I know this is odd but it is anyone else this way with women? Not being attracted to your own race that is
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Its natural.

Its possible you are attracted to other races because they have cultural upbringings/values that the Caucasian women you have met do not. Caucasian includes many different cultures. Are you simply not sexually attracted to any white woman? Its possible. We are human and we are picky.
 
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I say women are like cars: some give you more problems than others, but they all have the same basic parts.
 
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I'm targeting a wide range of races as of lately (Mixed, Asian, Latino, Black) getting a HB out of each these races would be a great attachment to my CV. I've yet to see the Top 5 infamous PUA's pick up HB Black chicks LOL?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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XSilverStarboyX said:
Like one thing Ive noticed is my confidence always went up when I dated girls of a different race. The girl I dated over the summer was Phillipino and my friends said theyve never seen my so confident.
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Everyone here missed the point hung up on the interracial part. (which is funny to see the responses for a whole different reason).

But they missed the most important part. Your confidence is based off of women. You have no real confidence, and if you have no woman, you have no confidence. This is the problem the OP needs to fix. This is more important than interracial dating, or dating at all. This is the essence of your manhood and your manhood should not be depended on another person...much less a female.
 
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I find myself more attracted to Caucasian women and I'm not Caucasian. There are gorgeous women of every race, but the majority of women that I find attractive are Caucasian. I particularly love blond hair and blue eyes.

I guess some guys are just more attracted to the different features of other races. For me, I love the texture of white girls' hair. I also like their unique eye colors.
 
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