"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Interracial Dating : How do you deal with a girl's insecurity?

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I'm white, but I've dated 3 black girls, and the 1 thing they had in common was their insecurity about getting looks from people in public.

I never was the first to notice it, but whenever we went out, they'd get all self-conscious and say "we're getting looks," or "people are staring at us" and so on.

I would always try to laugh it off and a play it off in a ****y way. I'd say something like "Yeah, because we're a really hot pair" or if it was a dude, "Yeah, he's jealous of me." Sometimes, if it was a girl, I'd joke and say "Yeah, she wishes she can get in on this action. Hey, wanna invite her to tag along tonight?"

But the looks really seemed to bother them, especially if there were other black people who they knew around. They'd always suggest heading to a new spot or going home early. Going to clubs was also out of the question with these girls.

I guess dating outside the race is looked down upon in the black community around here. I got looks from white people too, but that never really bothered me, but if you're ever dating a girl from another race and she's insecure about getting looks from other people, how do you smoothly deal with that?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I am suprised that people actually still care about that.

My advice would be to keep making light of it like you have been, or just ignore it all together. Heck I like when people look at me. I am in a foreign country, it doesn't matter if I am on a date or not, I always got someone looking at me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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most guys that say that about black woman dont that special stuff a black woman would want in a white guy.
 
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I like black girls. They smell good. Great asses, too. :up:

There will always be people of all races who are uptight about interracial dating. If you are ever in jail, don't let anyone find out you like black girls or everyone will hate you, black and white.

Dating is overrated anyway. Just stay home and fvck.
 
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You can't. There are self esteem issues you cannot repair. Hopefully it will fade away in time but I doubt it.

I'm all for moving to Canada but that is because I am already here.
 
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katatonia said:
Don't date black women.












(because they're ugly)
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Black women tend to aim high when they are looking for dudes, you're probably just a lame and never ****ed a Black chick before.

My sister brought home a white bf, we all cosigned gave our approval. Dude was cool as ****, I was cool with him being with my little sis.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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katatonia said:
Don't date black women.












(because they're ugly)
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Not all black girls are ugly.

Though I will be honest and say the ratio of attractive black women vs white/hispanic/asian, is extremely low here in South Florida.
 
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