"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Interpreting signals?

arcilitei34

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During my break today, I spent a collective of 70 minutes talking to my friend who is kind of attractive, however Im not quite interested in her but I am in fact interested in some of her friends.

Our conversation was great, until it came down to her bringing up the topic of about me dating girls, this is where Im a little confused, she's currently seeing someone but yet she still asks me about my dating history, asking me how many girlfriends I've had, and such, I didn't tell her much though, but she decided to unload on me about her dating past, recent ex's, who she's seeing now, and I didnt' even ask about it.

She then asked if I was interested in any of the girls in the school(im actually a new senior), I told her that I found some of the girls to being cute/hot and couldnt judge until i met them. I guess the one thing im wondering is, when the female introduces the topic of dating/relationships and does most of the talking, what does that sometimes signify?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Afrodisiac21

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It could mean anything, she may just be trying to gain rapport, or she may wanna jump your bones .... who knows :D
you really didn't give enough information for anyone to judge whether she's interested or not.
 

arcilitei34

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I dont think she's interested she's seeing someone right now a 6'5 korean huge guy who could crush me, but he's a cool guy haha. I kept getting this vibe that she was somewhat interested, but at the same time with hidden intention, not quite sure how to explain it. What was wierd was when she asked me if i was interested in any of the girls in the school, Im a new guy, so the first thing i want to do is to make friends with everyone before i do anything. Hopefully she's speaking to me on behalf of her friends ;) dare to dream haha.
 
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