"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Interpreting signals?

arcilitei34

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During my break today, I spent a collective of 70 minutes talking to my friend who is kind of attractive, however Im not quite interested in her but I am in fact interested in some of her friends.

Our conversation was great, until it came down to her bringing up the topic of about me dating girls, this is where Im a little confused, she's currently seeing someone but yet she still asks me about my dating history, asking me how many girlfriends I've had, and such, I didn't tell her much though, but she decided to unload on me about her dating past, recent ex's, who she's seeing now, and I didnt' even ask about it.

She then asked if I was interested in any of the girls in the school(im actually a new senior), I told her that I found some of the girls to being cute/hot and couldnt judge until i met them. I guess the one thing im wondering is, when the female introduces the topic of dating/relationships and does most of the talking, what does that sometimes signify?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Afrodisiac21

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It could mean anything, she may just be trying to gain rapport, or she may wanna jump your bones .... who knows :D
you really didn't give enough information for anyone to judge whether she's interested or not.
 

arcilitei34

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I dont think she's interested she's seeing someone right now a 6'5 korean huge guy who could crush me, but he's a cool guy haha. I kept getting this vibe that she was somewhat interested, but at the same time with hidden intention, not quite sure how to explain it. What was wierd was when she asked me if i was interested in any of the girls in the school, Im a new guy, so the first thing i want to do is to make friends with everyone before i do anything. Hopefully she's speaking to me on behalf of her friends ;) dare to dream haha.
 
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