Doc Freezy
Don Juan
"why do you want me though, Im sure you can have plenty of other girls" - Text msg from a HB7
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Interpret this..
- Thread starter Doc Freezy
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She wants you to qualify her. Get on a date with her first (which I am pretty sure you havent done yet). Qualifying is the process of telling a girl why you like her by telling her what makes you attracted to her THAT IS NOT HER LOOKS!
If you do this too easily and soon she will think you are easy and lose attraction for you, but if you never do it at all she will think you ain't attracted to her! Whatever you have been doing up to now to get a quote like that out of her keep doing it. Seems to me you are doing a good job. Keep playing it c&f.
btw yes it is a test and she is testing to see if you are a man (hard to get) or just another easy chump that is ready to confess his puppy love for her. What do you think will work best? 2 replies you could use
hero: I think you are nice/beautiful/whatever other compliment you can think off to reply to her question
OR
hero: You are going way too fast for me. BTW I gotta go meet up with some friends i'll call you back!
hint: it ain't #1
I mean seriously brother get on a date with this girl first, make her earn your respect.
If you do this too easily and soon she will think you are easy and lose attraction for you, but if you never do it at all she will think you ain't attracted to her! Whatever you have been doing up to now to get a quote like that out of her keep doing it. Seems to me you are doing a good job. Keep playing it c&f.
btw yes it is a test and she is testing to see if you are a man (hard to get) or just another easy chump that is ready to confess his puppy love for her. What do you think will work best? 2 replies you could use
hero: I think you are nice/beautiful/whatever other compliment you can think off to reply to her question
OR
hero: You are going way too fast for me. BTW I gotta go meet up with some friends i'll call you back!
hint: it ain't #1
I mean seriously brother get on a date with this girl first, make her earn your respect.Doc Freezy
Don Juan
Or captain you could not be a douche and provide a constructive theory.
It's more about a desire of understanding than my desire to bag this one girl.
It's more about a desire of understanding than my desire to bag this one girl.
She probably sent it because she has low self-esteem and senses that you are a 'player'. Also could be a sh1t test to see if you say something beta like "oh no I have no eyes for any other ladies you're my #1 girl you're so beautiful wuv u <3"
No problem here, proceed as usual.
No problem here, proceed as usual.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.