Doc Freezy
Don Juan
"why do you want me though, Im sure you can have plenty of other girls" - Text msg from a HB7
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Interpret this..
- Thread starter Doc Freezy
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She wants you to qualify her. Get on a date with her first (which I am pretty sure you havent done yet). Qualifying is the process of telling a girl why you like her by telling her what makes you attracted to her THAT IS NOT HER LOOKS!
If you do this too easily and soon she will think you are easy and lose attraction for you, but if you never do it at all she will think you ain't attracted to her! Whatever you have been doing up to now to get a quote like that out of her keep doing it. Seems to me you are doing a good job. Keep playing it c&f.
btw yes it is a test and she is testing to see if you are a man (hard to get) or just another easy chump that is ready to confess his puppy love for her. What do you think will work best? 2 replies you could use
hero: I think you are nice/beautiful/whatever other compliment you can think off to reply to her question
OR
hero: You are going way too fast for me. BTW I gotta go meet up with some friends i'll call you back!
hint: it ain't #1
I mean seriously brother get on a date with this girl first, make her earn your respect.
If you do this too easily and soon she will think you are easy and lose attraction for you, but if you never do it at all she will think you ain't attracted to her! Whatever you have been doing up to now to get a quote like that out of her keep doing it. Seems to me you are doing a good job. Keep playing it c&f.
btw yes it is a test and she is testing to see if you are a man (hard to get) or just another easy chump that is ready to confess his puppy love for her. What do you think will work best? 2 replies you could use
hero: I think you are nice/beautiful/whatever other compliment you can think off to reply to her question
OR
hero: You are going way too fast for me. BTW I gotta go meet up with some friends i'll call you back!
hint: it ain't #1
I mean seriously brother get on a date with this girl first, make her earn your respect.Doc Freezy
Don Juan
Or captain you could not be a douche and provide a constructive theory.
It's more about a desire of understanding than my desire to bag this one girl.
It's more about a desire of understanding than my desire to bag this one girl.
She probably sent it because she has low self-esteem and senses that you are a 'player'. Also could be a sh1t test to see if you say something beta like "oh no I have no eyes for any other ladies you're my #1 girl you're so beautiful wuv u <3"
No problem here, proceed as usual.
No problem here, proceed as usual.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.