Every 3 years or so I will get back on online dating for about a week. I usually do it at the behest of my guy friends. I have never had to patience or the extreme good looks for it. I am an average looking guy. One thing i have noticed though is that the response rate for the international website is a lot higher than the American dating sites. The girls also look much cleaner and more attractive. This should give us men hope. What we are witnessing in the United States is not the true nature of women. This is a perversion of true femininity. A truer reflection of women is how the women on international websites act. They are more down to earth and it doesnt take 100 messages to get them to answer. The response rate is probably around 30% if not more. Its a much more pleasant experience on Interpals vs plenty of fish.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Interpals vs POF
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I once set my Tinder location to Moscow and swiped for about 30min before bed. I woke up the next morning with a whole bunch of matches from very attractive women. I talked to many of them, and yes it was much easier. I can't pull that off in the USA.
Social Media is like crack cocaine to most women and it has fueled the entitlement. They all use it for validation/attention. Just watch the patterns and their posting habits.
Our eating habits in this country suck as well. I've never seen so many fatties. Even young ones in their 20s that should be in their prime. You wait, in 20-30 yrs you will see the number of heart related issues rise.
Social Media is like crack cocaine to most women and it has fueled the entitlement. They all use it for validation/attention. Just watch the patterns and their posting habits.
Our eating habits in this country suck as well. I've never seen so many fatties. Even young ones in their 20s that should be in their prime. You wait, in 20-30 yrs you will see the number of heart related issues rise.
I totally agree brotha. Its like night and day. Fascinating really.
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In the east, unless you are so completely clueless, there’s no way you can’t get women.
However. That’s in their location. If you brought her here with all the clueless men slobbering on her, her sexual value would go way up and unless you’re sharp, you’re done.
However. That’s in their location. If you brought her here with all the clueless men slobbering on her, her sexual value would go way up and unless you’re sharp, you’re done.
bro i didnt know how many men slobber and drown average women with ridiculous compliments. They kiss the ground they walk on. Look at all those men that write the most pathetic stuff on a hot chicks social media wall. No wonder they think that they are above most men. I am assuming that the men in the East do not slobbering over women? How do they approach beautiful women?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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It is a completely different culture. He value is sexual and bearing children but the culture does not support propitiation and supplication to women.
The approach fear is the same here so the most assertive men get all the p@ssy just like here.
Nearly all marry into their own caste. It is not spoken. It is engrained in culture. Unless an upper caste man goes and gets her from the lower caste she stays in her caste.