Every 3 years or so I will get back on online dating for about a week. I usually do it at the behest of my guy friends. I have never had to patience or the extreme good looks for it. I am an average looking guy. One thing i have noticed though is that the response rate for the international website is a lot higher than the American dating sites. The girls also look much cleaner and more attractive. This should give us men hope. What we are witnessing in the United States is not the true nature of women. This is a perversion of true femininity. A truer reflection of women is how the women on international websites act. They are more down to earth and it doesnt take 100 messages to get them to answer. The response rate is probably around 30% if not more. Its a much more pleasant experience on Interpals vs plenty of fish.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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I once set my Tinder location to Moscow and swiped for about 30min before bed. I woke up the next morning with a whole bunch of matches from very attractive women. I talked to many of them, and yes it was much easier. I can't pull that off in the USA.
Social Media is like crack cocaine to most women and it has fueled the entitlement. They all use it for validation/attention. Just watch the patterns and their posting habits.
Our eating habits in this country suck as well. I've never seen so many fatties. Even young ones in their 20s that should be in their prime. You wait, in 20-30 yrs you will see the number of heart related issues rise.
Social Media is like crack cocaine to most women and it has fueled the entitlement. They all use it for validation/attention. Just watch the patterns and their posting habits.
Our eating habits in this country suck as well. I've never seen so many fatties. Even young ones in their 20s that should be in their prime. You wait, in 20-30 yrs you will see the number of heart related issues rise.
I totally agree brotha. Its like night and day. Fascinating really.
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In the east, unless you are so completely clueless, there’s no way you can’t get women.
However. That’s in their location. If you brought her here with all the clueless men slobbering on her, her sexual value would go way up and unless you’re sharp, you’re done.
However. That’s in their location. If you brought her here with all the clueless men slobbering on her, her sexual value would go way up and unless you’re sharp, you’re done.
bro i didnt know how many men slobber and drown average women with ridiculous compliments. They kiss the ground they walk on. Look at all those men that write the most pathetic stuff on a hot chicks social media wall. No wonder they think that they are above most men. I am assuming that the men in the East do not slobbering over women? How do they approach beautiful women?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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It is a completely different culture. He value is sexual and bearing children but the culture does not support propitiation and supplication to women.
The approach fear is the same here so the most assertive men get all the p@ssy just like here.
Nearly all marry into their own caste. It is not spoken. It is engrained in culture. Unless an upper caste man goes and gets her from the lower caste she stays in her caste.