"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Interpals vs POF

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Every 3 years or so I will get back on online dating for about a week. I usually do it at the behest of my guy friends. I have never had to patience or the extreme good looks for it. I am an average looking guy. One thing i have noticed though is that the response rate for the international website is a lot higher than the American dating sites. The girls also look much cleaner and more attractive. This should give us men hope. What we are witnessing in the United States is not the true nature of women. This is a perversion of true femininity. A truer reflection of women is how the women on international websites act. They are more down to earth and it doesnt take 100 messages to get them to answer. The response rate is probably around 30% if not more. Its a much more pleasant experience on Interpals vs plenty of fish.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I once set my Tinder location to Moscow and swiped for about 30min before bed. I woke up the next morning with a whole bunch of matches from very attractive women. I talked to many of them, and yes it was much easier. I can't pull that off in the USA.

Social Media is like crack cocaine to most women and it has fueled the entitlement. They all use it for validation/attention. Just watch the patterns and their posting habits.

Our eating habits in this country suck as well. I've never seen so many fatties. Even young ones in their 20s that should be in their prime. You wait, in 20-30 yrs you will see the number of heart related issues rise.
 

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I once set my Tinder location to Moscow and swiped for about 30min before bed. I woke up the next morning with a whole bunch of matches from very attractive women. I talked to many of them, and yes it was much easier. I can't pull that off in the USA.
I totally agree brotha. Its like night and day. Fascinating really.
 
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In the east, unless you are so completely clueless, there’s no way you can’t get women.
However. That’s in their location. If you brought her here with all the clueless men slobbering on her, her sexual value would go way up and unless you’re sharp, you’re done.
 

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In the east, unless you are so completely clueless, there’s no way you can’t get women.
However. That’s in their location. If you brought her here with all the clueless men slobbering on her, her sexual value would go way up and unless you’re sharp, you’re done.
bro i didnt know how many men slobber and drown average women with ridiculous compliments. They kiss the ground they walk on. Look at all those men that write the most pathetic stuff on a hot chicks social media wall. No wonder they think that they are above most men. I am assuming that the men in the East do not slobbering over women? How do they approach beautiful women?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bro i didnt know how many men slobber and drown average women with ridiculous compliments. They kiss the ground they walk on. Look at all those men that write the most pathetic stuff on a hot chicks social media wall. No wonder they think that they are above most men. I am assuming that the men in the East do not slobbering over women? How do they approach beautiful women?
It is a completely different culture. He value is sexual and bearing children but the culture does not support propitiation and supplication to women.
The approach fear is the same here so the most assertive men get all the p@ssy just like here.
Nearly all marry into their own caste. It is not spoken. It is engrained in culture. Unless an upper caste man goes and gets her from the lower caste she stays in her caste.
 
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