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International mens day

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So today is our day, international men's day. I haven't noticed any gratification for this day in society as there are for women's day. I'm not saying we should be receiving gifts and sh1t like that but it's disgusting that there is no to very little recognition about it. The point is that something little like that can and is stringing along to even more greater things. Especially in today's world where men can easily be marked as a abusive or rapist and even convicted even tho you haven't done it.

Its like society is automatically asuming sh1ts for and about us. Thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Happy international men's day; that was a great idea to make it in the 'movember' moustache-growing month for awareness and education and fundraising on men's health issues like prostate cancer
 

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So today is our day, international men's day. I haven't noticed any gratification for this day in society as there are for women's day. I'm not saying we should be receiving gifts and sh1t like that but it's disgusting that there is no to very little recognition about it. The point is that something little like that can and is stringing along to even more greater things. Especially in today's world where men can easily be marked as a abusive or rapist and even convicted even tho you haven't done it.

Its like society is automatically asuming sh1ts for and about us. Thoughts?
If a ship sinks today, we can get in the lifeboats and leave the women behind.
 

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So today is our day, international men's day. I haven't noticed any gratification for this day in society as there are for women's day. I'm not saying we should be receiving gifts and sh1t like that but it's disgusting that there is no to very little recognition about it. The point is that something little like that can and is stringing along to even more greater things. Especially in today's world where men can easily be marked as a abusive or rapist and even convicted even tho you haven't done it.

Its like society is automatically asuming sh1ts for and about us. Thoughts?
Don't overthink it like women do.

I mean happy birthday man!

This used to be just another excuse for companies to sell more beer in our country. Not this year tho.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't overthink it like women do.

I mean happy birthday man!

This used to be just another excuse for companies to sell more beer in our country. Not this year tho.
I'm not overthinking it. I never even realized there was international men's day until today and it struck my mind for a minute how there are no society coverage for it.
 

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meh I don't care, i'm not a female who need several days to apease my ego and make me look important, I know I AM, I don't need anyone to reminde me of that, or lie to apease my ego(with is what happen the most)
 

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meh I don't care, i'm not a female who need several days to apease my ego and make me look important, I know I AM, I don't need anyone to reminde me of that, or lie to apease my ego(with is what happen the most)
Agree, it's not about appreciation or anything it was just an example about how society put men's generally automatically. Like I said about rape and abuse even though you may didn't do it you will still be accused of it.
 

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Agree, it's not about appreciation or anything it was just an example about how society put men's generally automatically. Like I said about rape and abuse even though you may didn't do it you will still be accused of it.
if that is the case you can do like a friend my always do to piss off people, the day of all saints he say every year, today is teh day of all men.

because only men are saints , or another who just say they give woman a day because the rest of the days are for the men, hence why we give a day for children and a day for woman, just so they know we care for then
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why would anyone participate or embrace such a 'movement?' If anything, I would denounce this.

I totally get... celebrating a cause like "Special Olympics" and I'm all for that.

We're men. Jeeze! What's next?
Are we going to have a parade day too where we march through town wearing sports jerseys, Hooters t-shirts and tank tops?
 

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I don't even pay attention to these side holidays but, I did get a text from an old plate saying she "knows we're both going through alot" but that she misses me and wants to hang out soon. (I'm really not going through jack**** so its kinda funny)

She's not even really an old plate.. Just a plate i haven't seen since all the covid stuff
 

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I don't even pay attention to these side holidays but, I did get a text from an old plate saying she "knows we're both going through alot" but that she misses me and wants to hang out soon. (I'm really not going through jack**** so its kinda funny)

She's not even really an old plate.. Just a plate i haven't seen since all the covid stuff
Neither do I, I saw a post from someone on Instagram saying today's was a men's day. I never give a thought that was a thing but it came to my mind something blatant like that is stringing along to greater thinks where automatically mens are generalized, as I said that rape thing.
 

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Why would anyone participate or embrace such a 'movement?' If anything, I would denounce this.

I totally get... celebrating a cause like "Special Olympics" and I'm all for that.

We're men. Jeeze! What's next?
Are we going to have a parade day too where we march through town wearing sports jerseys, Hooters t-shirts and tank tops?
As I said that was just an example of how society generalize men and automatically categories them. You fvcked a girl she goes and report you for rape and everyone thinks you are rapist.
 

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My thoughts are, there is no coverage because men as a whole dont care about it, and we dont have the need for it. I don't know you guys, but i cannot celebrate and drink beer until i have accomplished something. I cannot orgazm with someone elses dikz.
 

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So today is our day, international men's day. I haven't noticed any gratification for this day in society as there are for women's day. I'm not saying we should be receiving gifts and sh1t like that but it's disgusting that there is no to very little recognition about it. The point is that something little like that can and is stringing along to even more greater things. Especially in today's world where men can easily be marked as a abusive or rapist and even convicted even tho you haven't done it.

Its like society is automatically asuming sh1ts for and about us. Thoughts?
I agree with you bro. Nothing like showing appreciation for men and everything WE have done.

What's sad is that now that women have had equal opportunity to be anything they want and everywhere they want, where are all the breakthrough's, inventions, discoveries by women? Oh yeah that's right, they are all too busy on social media and instasham. History will still remember men as of now for their accomplishments, the way things are going...

Personally, I think we should all get a free meal from a women and then have her bend over for our desert. But we can only dream...
 

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I agree with you bro. Nothing like showing appreciation for men and everything WE have done.

What's sad is that now that women have had equal opportunity to be anything they want and everywhere they want, where are all the breakthrough's, inventions, discoveries by women? Oh yeah that's right, they are all too busy on social media and instasham. History will still remember men as of now for their accomplishments, the way things are going...

Personally, I think we should all get a free meal from a women and then have her bend over for our desert. But we can only dream...
I agree with you. As I said we as men don't expect anything about it and really don't care about it anyway. But the point is not about men's day it's about how society acts towards men where we are today automatically marked as abusive etc.
I know a lot of women who lied about their boyfriends, how they were abusing them and really ruined their careers if not lives eventually tho it was completely bullsh1t.
 
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