"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Interesting..what do you think?

drf408

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I posted about a girl I really liked but bombed with - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155746

Fast forward several days since any communication, (I even deleted her #) I just got a txt from her, I know its due to context..basically shes being all cute and now asking me what I'm doing Friday during the day..which I am actually off. I like the girl, and from past experience lack of action hasnt paid off..is it wrong to start asking her what she had in mind?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There is no such thing as wrong in this circumstance.

If anything, you have the chance to turn a wrong in to a right.

As long as she's the one asking you to do something, it's fine. Just don't make the mistake of getting all wrapped up in her like before.

Go out with her and have fun. Don't be needy. Don't talk about relationships. Just have fun and make her laugh. If she starts giving you IOIs, go in for the move. Don't let another date slip away with no action (unless she's really just trying to be friends.. in that case.. next)
 

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Agreed, she asked if i want to join her and her friends to go wine tasting..lets hope this isnt some cheap, very bad ploy to hook me up with one of her friends;) that would be evil! However I just got back from a date with an easy 9 and a regular of mine (a 7.5-8) just text me "come over and fvk me"..so I'm in a good spot!!! :)
 
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