"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Interesting..what do you think?

drf408

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I posted about a girl I really liked but bombed with - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155746

Fast forward several days since any communication, (I even deleted her #) I just got a txt from her, I know its due to context..basically shes being all cute and now asking me what I'm doing Friday during the day..which I am actually off. I like the girl, and from past experience lack of action hasnt paid off..is it wrong to start asking her what she had in mind?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

WC2

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There is no such thing as wrong in this circumstance.

If anything, you have the chance to turn a wrong in to a right.

As long as she's the one asking you to do something, it's fine. Just don't make the mistake of getting all wrapped up in her like before.

Go out with her and have fun. Don't be needy. Don't talk about relationships. Just have fun and make her laugh. If she starts giving you IOIs, go in for the move. Don't let another date slip away with no action (unless she's really just trying to be friends.. in that case.. next)
 

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Agreed, she asked if i want to join her and her friends to go wine tasting..lets hope this isnt some cheap, very bad ploy to hook me up with one of her friends;) that would be evil! However I just got back from a date with an easy 9 and a regular of mine (a 7.5-8) just text me "come over and fvk me"..so I'm in a good spot!!! :)
 
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