"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Interesting tinder experiment

Jetleg

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http://www.tinderseduction.com/male-model-tinder-case-study/

I thought some of you younger DJ would find this intresting, this is the ultimate proof, that "creepy" for women is basically just a none-super-attractive guy hitting on them. i'm not suprised that they were after him, but how DESPERATE they were, its amazes me!

the title says a 10/10 male, i think he is good looking guy but def not 10/10.

Conclusion: tinder b1tches are h0es. maybe someone here try a direct approach and tell us if it was sucessful?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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From an objective standpoint, this 'experiment' doesn't hold much water: there's no record of overall matches or percentages. Of course, Germanlifter (or whoever he is) only selects the interactions that prove his point. Not to mention we don't know where he is and can't accurately gauge the SMVs of the girls he's messaging. Tinder game has also changed drastically in the past year--it's so mainstream that there are tons of AWs, shy girls that legitimately don't do hook ups, and girls looking for a SO on there (plus I'm in the south and here even the slvttiest girls tend to respond better to princess game).

So while this type of game can work you're basically screening for the most desperate, overtly DTF girls (typically 1-2 points below your Tinder SMV which is 3-4 points IRL) and alienating a much larger pool of girls you probably could **** running less direct game. Not to mention dealing with increased ASD and buyer's remorse before you even get the girl in person.

Looks-wise I'm comparable to the guy used in the 'case study' (my photo quality obviously isn't professional level). I can run this type of game on 6's and 7's and get my phone blown up with desperate, depraved messages. In the 8-9 range and the more quality 7's this type of message gets ignored, unmatched, or AW'ed with maybe maybe a legitimate lead every so often. Much easier to just be aloof and get them out for coffee or drinks before doing any real escalation--but even then it's not the cakewalk that a lot of guys would like to think it is.
 

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Most guys already knew that...nothing groundbreaking here...just kind of stating the obvious.
 

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I would agree that there's nothing empirical or scientific about this "study". That being said, it doesn't deter from the fact that if you're a legit 10 you can pull this sh!t off. It's just not anything I or anyone else here should lose sleep over.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I started looking at it, saw BB.com MISC bull****, then closed my browser. Hate that subforum.
Lol...Haven't been on the BB.com forums in years...buncha dudes that use gear that pretend they don't.

I'm on the EVO forums mostly. At least they keep it real over there...
 

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Lol...Haven't been on the BB.com forums in years...buncha dudes that use gear that pretend they don't.

I'm on the EVO forums mostly. At least they keep it real over there...
The real question is, when you're on the internet, how would you ever know?
 

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Lol...Haven't been on the BB.com forums in years...buncha dudes that use gear that pretend they don't.

I'm on the EVO forums mostly. At least they keep it real over there...
i dont go on forums anymore for bb/pling. everyone thinks they are an expert.
 

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i dont go on forums anymore for bb/pling. everyone thinks they are an expert.
I'm on there mostly for the gear knowledge...can never have too many legit places to order from...
 
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