"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Interesting situation. got this # of hb 8. how to pursue

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So my buddy was taljing to this girl who recently broke her engagement. Him and her have texted and gained alot of chemistry through phone alone without meeting up. So me and him go meet up with her and her friend for the first time on saturday.

Well, the meetup went very bad for him. He was super nervous and you could tell she wanted to leave the whole time. But, i figured he was nervous cause me and her friend were around, so me and her leave and kick it for about a half hour. Turns out shes cute and cool as hell, but i didnt pull her number from her (i know major mistake)

A couple hours later i call my buddy and im like give me hb8 # im gonna text her. So we text for a few and it went well, so i text her two days later and it goes even better.

However, my buddy had ruined his chance with his girl, so now im wondering if i should still pursue this chick. Usually i wouldnt care but i i dont want to piss him off if i bring her out and she brings her friend with him around.

Also, should i wait to initiate. She seems self conscious and i might have to put work in (inititate more than her). Wondering how long i shoukd wait to contact her again. Dont wanna piss my friend off though, i kinda feel bad i got the better deal out of a meetup he set up, i dont want to make things awkward for him. Pvssy aint worth my boys.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I wouldn't do it dude. There's a billion girls out there
 
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If he's your boy he'll be happy for you. It's a different girl, it shouldnt be a problem, just hang out with her 1 on 1. My friends rarely if ever meet the girls I date. Just hit her up whenever and arrange a meet.

If he gets vaginal about it, tell him to man the fvck up, you're not banging his ex.
 
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Had a similar situation. A buddy of mine was way into this girl who was a friend of a friend. She wasn't feeling him. But I heard through the grapevine that she was into me. He and I have been buddies for about 18 years. I passed. Dumb? Maybe. Think it through.
 
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Just discuss it with him, see what he says, no big deal. Be open with your friend first and foremost. If it bothers him, drop it, if not, take her to pound town.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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VladPatton said:
Just discuss it with him, see what he says, no big deal. Be open with your friend first and foremost. If it bothers him, drop it, if not, take her to pound town.
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Yes, definitely the best approach. :up:
 
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