"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Interesting situation. got this # of hb 8. how to pursue

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So my buddy was taljing to this girl who recently broke her engagement. Him and her have texted and gained alot of chemistry through phone alone without meeting up. So me and him go meet up with her and her friend for the first time on saturday.

Well, the meetup went very bad for him. He was super nervous and you could tell she wanted to leave the whole time. But, i figured he was nervous cause me and her friend were around, so me and her leave and kick it for about a half hour. Turns out shes cute and cool as hell, but i didnt pull her number from her (i know major mistake)

A couple hours later i call my buddy and im like give me hb8 # im gonna text her. So we text for a few and it went well, so i text her two days later and it goes even better.

However, my buddy had ruined his chance with his girl, so now im wondering if i should still pursue this chick. Usually i wouldnt care but i i dont want to piss him off if i bring her out and she brings her friend with him around.

Also, should i wait to initiate. She seems self conscious and i might have to put work in (inititate more than her). Wondering how long i shoukd wait to contact her again. Dont wanna piss my friend off though, i kinda feel bad i got the better deal out of a meetup he set up, i dont want to make things awkward for him. Pvssy aint worth my boys.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I wouldn't do it dude. There's a billion girls out there
 
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If he's your boy he'll be happy for you. It's a different girl, it shouldnt be a problem, just hang out with her 1 on 1. My friends rarely if ever meet the girls I date. Just hit her up whenever and arrange a meet.

If he gets vaginal about it, tell him to man the fvck up, you're not banging his ex.
 
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Had a similar situation. A buddy of mine was way into this girl who was a friend of a friend. She wasn't feeling him. But I heard through the grapevine that she was into me. He and I have been buddies for about 18 years. I passed. Dumb? Maybe. Think it through.
 
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Just discuss it with him, see what he says, no big deal. Be open with your friend first and foremost. If it bothers him, drop it, if not, take her to pound town.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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VladPatton said:
Just discuss it with him, see what he says, no big deal. Be open with your friend first and foremost. If it bothers him, drop it, if not, take her to pound town.
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Yes, definitely the best approach. :up:
 
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