"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Interesting situation. got this # of hb 8. how to pursue

jay07

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So my buddy was taljing to this girl who recently broke her engagement. Him and her have texted and gained alot of chemistry through phone alone without meeting up. So me and him go meet up with her and her friend for the first time on saturday.

Well, the meetup went very bad for him. He was super nervous and you could tell she wanted to leave the whole time. But, i figured he was nervous cause me and her friend were around, so me and her leave and kick it for about a half hour. Turns out shes cute and cool as hell, but i didnt pull her number from her (i know major mistake)

A couple hours later i call my buddy and im like give me hb8 # im gonna text her. So we text for a few and it went well, so i text her two days later and it goes even better.

However, my buddy had ruined his chance with his girl, so now im wondering if i should still pursue this chick. Usually i wouldnt care but i i dont want to piss him off if i bring her out and she brings her friend with him around.

Also, should i wait to initiate. She seems self conscious and i might have to put work in (inititate more than her). Wondering how long i shoukd wait to contact her again. Dont wanna piss my friend off though, i kinda feel bad i got the better deal out of a meetup he set up, i dont want to make things awkward for him. Pvssy aint worth my boys.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Odisseo

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I wouldn't do it dude. There's a billion girls out there
 

Mr Wright

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If he's your boy he'll be happy for you. It's a different girl, it shouldnt be a problem, just hang out with her 1 on 1. My friends rarely if ever meet the girls I date. Just hit her up whenever and arrange a meet.

If he gets vaginal about it, tell him to man the fvck up, you're not banging his ex.
 

GS750

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Had a similar situation. A buddy of mine was way into this girl who was a friend of a friend. She wasn't feeling him. But I heard through the grapevine that she was into me. He and I have been buddies for about 18 years. I passed. Dumb? Maybe. Think it through.
 

VladPatton

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Just discuss it with him, see what he says, no big deal. Be open with your friend first and foremost. If it bothers him, drop it, if not, take her to pound town.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GS750

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VladPatton said:
Just discuss it with him, see what he says, no big deal. Be open with your friend first and foremost. If it bothers him, drop it, if not, take her to pound town.
Yes, definitely the best approach. :up:
 
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