"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Interesting reading on women and sex drive

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http://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare?page=2

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"Sexual desire in women is extremely sensitive to environment and context," says Edward O. Laumann, PhD, a professor of sociology at the University of Chicago and lead author of a major survey of sexual practices,


I thought this was important..

Men and women travel slightly different paths to arrive at sexual desire. "I hear women say in my office that desire originates much more between the ears than between the legs," says Esther Perel, a New York City psychotherapist and author of Mating in Captivity. "For women there is a need for a plot -- hence the romance novel. It is more about the anticipation, how you get there; it is the longing that is the fuel for desire," Perel says.

this is the sht we preach here every day. Don't be so eager to go from a to z (guilty!) and kill the the story line these chicks crave
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Sexual desire in women is extremely sensitive to environment and context,"
Realllllllyyyyyyyy professor???? I guess it makes more sense that finding a ONS at a club is easier than a church. Score one for academia.

Also, the story doesn't end when it reaches sex. It's just most likely the CLIMAX (hehe..) of the story is reached when a fvck is involved. There are still ways to fuel the plot rather than extended the time you make her wait. Make her wait too long and she will find another dude to write the chapters in her book.
 

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Lol, sounds like this prof found all this info out from checking out this board!
 

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Upside said:
Realllllllyyyyyyyy professor???? I guess it makes more sense that finding a ONS at a club is easier than a church. Score one for academia.

Also, the story doesn't end when it reaches sex. It's just most likely the CLIMAX (hehe..) of the story is reached when a fvck is involved. There are still ways to fuel the plot rather than extended the time you make her wait. Make her wait too long and she will find another dude to write the chapters in her book.
Very well said. If I had a nickel for every time Ive missed the opportunity to have sex when the iron was hot so to speak, and I didnt act accordingly for fear that I was going to fast, I'd be a wealthy man by now.
 

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Its how you act AFTER the sex is when the real fun starts IMO.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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