"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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interesting questions wanted to ask plus discussion tips

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hey i just wanted a list of transition questions one could ask on a date or meeting. open ended questions that one could use the 5 whys method to get to the root of the matter.

example

so what do you do?
what do you look for in a guy?

stuff like that. basically i need a good set of questions to use when a topic starts to die out and i need to make a transition to something else.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by myth465
what do you look for in a guy?
No, no! You are the great Myth456 and YOU are what EVERY woman wants! She has to qualify for YOU. You KNOW you're the best guy she'll ever get!:D

Ask her...
Favorite animal & why; last book she read; foreign countries she's been to or would like to visit & why. You're a clever guy, you can think of something.;)
 

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Ah there is a search bar just for this. I remember a few posts with huge lists of questions like this. You can either search for that. or B

search every response I've made under this name and

Golden Leaf
Davinci

and you'll find that list... Happy Hunting
 

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k. here is a link... for a sample of some questions.
GenoArt.com
 

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Re: Re: interesting questions wanted to ask plus discussion tips

Originally posted by WaterTiger
No, no! You are the great Myth456 and YOU are what EVERY woman wants! She has to qualify for YOU. You KNOW you're the best guy she'll ever get!:D

Ask her...
Favorite animal & why; last book she read; foreign countries she's been to or would like to visit & why. You're a clever guy, you can think of something.;)
thanks thats a good point, and i will see how it goes. thanks for the list to capri
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WaterTiger is right homie. She is trying to tell you that YOU are the prize and to go in with this attitude. This girl must qualify herself to YOU.

Taking this whole pardigm shift will win you the day. It will give you the confidence to have a nice and relaxing convo without having to memorize a whole list of dumb assed questions.

The problem with a list of shyt to say is what happens if you forget something.

Or what happens when she says something interesting and you in your great effort to follow a pre-concieved list of crap forget to follow the train of thought. You will look insincere and shallow...jumping from one question to the next.

Conversations is about taking a real interest in her life story!
 

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thanks you guys are right this is a 2 way deal. im a natural at conversation and im usually told im a great listener. thanks for the advice,
 
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