"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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interesting questions wanted to ask plus discussion tips

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hey i just wanted a list of transition questions one could ask on a date or meeting. open ended questions that one could use the 5 whys method to get to the root of the matter.

example

so what do you do?
what do you look for in a guy?

stuff like that. basically i need a good set of questions to use when a topic starts to die out and i need to make a transition to something else.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by myth465
what do you look for in a guy?
No, no! You are the great Myth456 and YOU are what EVERY woman wants! She has to qualify for YOU. You KNOW you're the best guy she'll ever get!:D

Ask her...
Favorite animal & why; last book she read; foreign countries she's been to or would like to visit & why. You're a clever guy, you can think of something.;)
 

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Ah there is a search bar just for this. I remember a few posts with huge lists of questions like this. You can either search for that. or B

search every response I've made under this name and

Golden Leaf
Davinci

and you'll find that list... Happy Hunting
 

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k. here is a link... for a sample of some questions.
GenoArt.com
 

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Re: Re: interesting questions wanted to ask plus discussion tips

Originally posted by WaterTiger
No, no! You are the great Myth456 and YOU are what EVERY woman wants! She has to qualify for YOU. You KNOW you're the best guy she'll ever get!:D

Ask her...
Favorite animal & why; last book she read; foreign countries she's been to or would like to visit & why. You're a clever guy, you can think of something.;)
thanks thats a good point, and i will see how it goes. thanks for the list to capri
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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WaterTiger is right homie. She is trying to tell you that YOU are the prize and to go in with this attitude. This girl must qualify herself to YOU.

Taking this whole pardigm shift will win you the day. It will give you the confidence to have a nice and relaxing convo without having to memorize a whole list of dumb assed questions.

The problem with a list of shyt to say is what happens if you forget something.

Or what happens when she says something interesting and you in your great effort to follow a pre-concieved list of crap forget to follow the train of thought. You will look insincere and shallow...jumping from one question to the next.

Conversations is about taking a real interest in her life story!
 

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thanks you guys are right this is a 2 way deal. im a natural at conversation and im usually told im a great listener. thanks for the advice,
 
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