"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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interesting questions wanted to ask plus discussion tips

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hey i just wanted a list of transition questions one could ask on a date or meeting. open ended questions that one could use the 5 whys method to get to the root of the matter.

example

so what do you do?
what do you look for in a guy?

stuff like that. basically i need a good set of questions to use when a topic starts to die out and i need to make a transition to something else.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by myth465
what do you look for in a guy?
No, no! You are the great Myth456 and YOU are what EVERY woman wants! She has to qualify for YOU. You KNOW you're the best guy she'll ever get!:D

Ask her...
Favorite animal & why; last book she read; foreign countries she's been to or would like to visit & why. You're a clever guy, you can think of something.;)
 

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Ah there is a search bar just for this. I remember a few posts with huge lists of questions like this. You can either search for that. or B

search every response I've made under this name and

Golden Leaf
Davinci

and you'll find that list... Happy Hunting
 

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k. here is a link... for a sample of some questions.
GenoArt.com
 

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Re: Re: interesting questions wanted to ask plus discussion tips

Originally posted by WaterTiger
No, no! You are the great Myth456 and YOU are what EVERY woman wants! She has to qualify for YOU. You KNOW you're the best guy she'll ever get!:D

Ask her...
Favorite animal & why; last book she read; foreign countries she's been to or would like to visit & why. You're a clever guy, you can think of something.;)
thanks thats a good point, and i will see how it goes. thanks for the list to capri
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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WaterTiger is right homie. She is trying to tell you that YOU are the prize and to go in with this attitude. This girl must qualify herself to YOU.

Taking this whole pardigm shift will win you the day. It will give you the confidence to have a nice and relaxing convo without having to memorize a whole list of dumb assed questions.

The problem with a list of shyt to say is what happens if you forget something.

Or what happens when she says something interesting and you in your great effort to follow a pre-concieved list of crap forget to follow the train of thought. You will look insincere and shallow...jumping from one question to the next.

Conversations is about taking a real interest in her life story!
 

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thanks you guys are right this is a 2 way deal. im a natural at conversation and im usually told im a great listener. thanks for the advice,
 
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