Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Interesting perspectives on "living standards" between EU and the US

BackInTheGame78

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I've often heard that people in the EU are "better off" than their counterparts in the US in terms of affordability, living standards, etc.

However, there is an important thing to understand. While this is generally true, the reason is not because it's less expensive to live in the EU, it's actually MORE expensive. The reason is because the average person in the EU consumes far less than the average American in almost every aspect of their daily existence.

Houses are much smaller.

People either have 1 car or no cars and use public transportation rather than having 2 cars which is standard in the US.

Cars are generally much smaller and distances to travel are much less as cities are more walkable in general.

They generally have less "stuff".

So yes, while the living standard is higher, it's not an actual true comparison because you are comparing the cost of less with the cost of more.

If you did an apples to apples comparison and factored in the same size houses, having multiple cars, etc as the average American does, the costs would be much higher in the EU than the US.

Most things are more expensive there...fuel, utilities, parking, etc.

Healthcare is mostly free but they also pay much higher tax rates and get much lower incomes than the US for the same job, so Americans paying health insurance for the most part is a wash unless you are exceedingly sickly.

So while they may "live better" than people in the US, they also are doing so mainly because they have lower consumption thresholds and if the consumption thresholds would be equivalent they would be more expensive to much more expensive by comparison.

Not saying one is better than the other and in many cases people are actually happier with less to worry about...just saying it's a different comparison.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BillyPilgrim

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The EU outside of Scandinavia has about 3 times the population density of the US outside of Alaska, so...
 

The Duke

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I'm always amazed at all the people in America that have their garage so full of their junk they can't even park their cars in them. Then they rent a mini-storage and spend more money storing their junk than whats its worth.

Consumerism. America is the definition of it.
 
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