Interesting perspective heard from a girl

[skinnydart]

So this HB and another guy she knew as a friend came in my office, and were talking. What she said was interesting but contradicted some of the prevalent concepts given on this forum.

He: Yeah, I’m actually flying home for fall break with someone from my class.
She: Is it a girl?
He: Yeah, I kinda like her, but she already has a boyfriend
She: So? Ask her out!
He: No! I’m not going to do that. I mean I know the guy she’s going out with, he would hate that.
She: Why do guys think that just because a girl has a boyfriend, they don’t want to be asked out anymore? Girls love it when they are fought for. Girls want to be wanted.
….
She: Most girls are still looking for a guy that closer fits their dream guy. Don’t worry if we’re going out with someone at the time.

 

[Fatality]

Maybe this girl is just a cheating slut or maybe an attention *****. I do think that atleast 75% of girls between the age of 18-25 would cheat.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

This girl who is responding is obviously an American hor or has the thinking of one!!

 

[sapphire]

It just fits in with the idea that many women are constantly looking for the better and bigger deal (BBD). Until then she will hang with any schmuck who happens to be around. Does not neccesarily make her a ho.

 

[alphamale1]

Sapphire that is a good point

I like ur thoughts

gotta go, i'll add something soon

Laters

 

[MetalFortress]

TRANSLATION

"Give her attention. Girls like attention. Doesn't matter how she responds or what she does for you. Give it to her."

 

[Chazz]

If it was me, I wouldn't listen to this girl. She is in the same line where all the girls tell you how girls love to get flowers and encourage you to be AFC.

Besides, if she cheats her bf with this guy, she is gonna do the same to him when some other guy asks her out.

 

[becker]

Good point by Chazz, I'll have to somewhat agree on that, even though I don't like generalizing most of the time.

I don't see any harm in asking a girl out who is with a BF, just to see what she says. You can always just not go out with her. It's maybe a good test to see if she's interested in you that much, as well as a field test for some of this crud. I know there are some girls who are pretty darn loyal, but can't resist the attention. There are also girls who are pretty steadfast and won't want to do anything with you.

Either way, it could be that she's attracted to you but faithful, attracted to you and not faithful, or not attracted to you.