"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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interesting little problem

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hey guys, i'm kind of in a weird little problem. so theres this website called nexopia, and basically you can put pictures of yourself and have a profile and you can make comments on your friends pages and what not. anyways i went to this one girls page and she's just smokin hot. she doesnt go to the same school as me but she lives in the same town. anyways so i've left her a couple of comments and stuff nothing major. but i want to try and increase the attraction. so here's my plan:

on her profile she said she likes MAC, which is a makeup kit thing. but what i'm going to try, is mistake MAC for the Macintosh computer and then try to be ****y and funny by saying she's a nerd and stuff. anyways my comment will look something like this

hey (girls name) hows it goin? i was looking at your profile and thats kinda interesting your into MAC. you dont see girls like you into the whole computers thing. do you play dungeons and dragons too? man the nerds must think your like the holy grail of all girls. they're probably like "man she's hotter than Princess Leia and Xena combined and she likes computers!" i guess that explains why your so pale.....anyways have a good weekend!

what do you guys think? too ****y not enough funny? any suggestions? thanks a lot.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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yeah it does seem a little on the offensive side, i'll have to revise it. thanks for the help.
 

bluesteel106

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hmmm so do you think i should scrap the whole idea then? because i definately dont want to insult her.
 

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Number. Call.

Internet.Chumps.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I actually agree with Liktenstein for once. Wow.:eek:
 
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