"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Interesting Date + Text-Game

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Had a first date with a cool HB who is pretty close to ideal, about a 7.5, great career, with a ton in common. But I was feeling zero chemistry, and I surmised her interest as very low-level as the night progressed despite rapport and my attempts at kino. I decided to chalk it up as a loss. I offered her a lift home.

I wasn't going to escalate, and was happy for her to go her own way.

Outside of her house, she leans over to kiss me, then says "we must do this again." The next morning, a text from her telling me she had a great time. Which was all a little surprising.

However, my follow-up text was ignored. Of course.

Text her again, or phone ASAP and just schedule another date?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ChrisHughes said:
Had a first date with a cool HB who is pretty close to ideal, about a 7.5, great career, with a ton in common. But I was feeling zero chemistry, and I surmised her interest as very low-level as the night progressed despite rapport and my attempts at kino. I decided to chalk it up as a loss. I offered her a lift home.

I wasn't going to escalate, and was happy for her to go her own way.

Outside of her house, she leans over to kiss me, then says "we must do this again." The next morning, a text from her telling me she had a great time. Which was all a little surprising.

However, my follow-up text was ignored. Of course.

Text her again, or phone ASAP and just schedule another date?
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IGNORED? how many days was it ignored?
 
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I don't think she'd say she had a "great time" if she wasn't at least a little interested in seeing you again. What was your follow up text?
 
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I surmised her interest as very low-level

Im going to say the date was a lose-lose. Either you misread her interest level and she ACTUALLY WAS interested, and you never escalated....or her interest level really is low....BUT she's the type of girl that loves attention and free dinners.

That being said...a girl that is not attracted to a guy, will not kiss him. It would be equivalent to us kissing a HB3. Text her in a few days and try to schedule another date...something with alcohol this time. And see if her interest level is there.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There were definitely no free dinners. I bought her one drink, and just the one.

Her kissing me on the lips followed my "all the best" when I expected her to just exit the car. My follow-up text the next morning was a facetious text about our next date, but there was no definite offer on my part, or no concrete date set.
 
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I'm confused. Was your follow-up text a response to hers or a brand new thread?

If it was a follow-up to hers then there was nothing to respond to. Just ask her out again. If she ignores, then next.

If it was a new thread and she ignored, it is a 100% next.
 
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