"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Interesting article on flirting from a psychology point
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Very interesting and true. BUT, there are the women who like to "flirt for flirting's sake" and have no real sexual interest in those men they choose to flirt with. In this case, I believe they flirt for the sakes of their own egos. They love it when they get male attention, "AKA Attention (w)hores" BUT if the male takes it too far, as he is genetically programmed to, they get disgusted, and ask him to back off. They want to do the little mating rituals, without actually wanting to mate. As a male, this makes as much sense to me, as sitting on a toilet without needing to relieve one's self. It is a big waste of time, energy and effort for both parties. As a male, I will only SPECIFICALLY flirt with a female I wish to copuate with. Imagine flirting with unattractive females you had no interest in?
i ****ing hate transyes ....
there should be a law that says they have to tell people they make out with or even flirt with that theyr transies... Like a aids...
thank god that i havetn met one yet , just hate the thought of what if that girl ur talking to is actually a male...
about the rest of the text yeah sounds to me like that these women are AH , flirting only to boost theyr ego....
there should be a law that says they have to tell people they make out with or even flirt with that theyr transies... Like a aids...
thank god that i havetn met one yet , just hate the thought of what if that girl ur talking to is actually a male...
about the rest of the text yeah sounds to me like that these women are AH , flirting only to boost theyr ego....
yes sadly I live with one I get all the hair twirling, hair flicking etc...and I do see this girl loves attention and is quite fond of drama, I wouldn't have a relationship with this girl as she is hard work and HM but I am still drawn to her and strangely attracted to her....I have someone else I am courting at the moment and believe me I have had some interesting and forward comments about this one from the room mate.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well there are chicks that flirt with everyone that's for sure.
You can tell if they are in to you though when you get em alone and you call their bluff.
But flirting with every girl is good practice too. It makes the homely ones happy and keeps your game high.
Plus the mere fact that you work the material on all of em, means you don't put a hottie on a pedestal. You give her the same stuff you give a war hog. Minus the neg hits. A war hog might punch you for some of them!
You can tell if they are in to you though when you get em alone and you call their bluff.
But flirting with every girl is good practice too. It makes the homely ones happy and keeps your game high.
Plus the mere fact that you work the material on all of em, means you don't put a hottie on a pedestal. You give her the same stuff you give a war hog. Minus the neg hits. A war hog might punch you for some of them!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
No one has ever said that only women can have fun flirting. Yeah I know, there are those that say that DJs shouldn't flirt but if you are already charismatic, its already a part of your persona.
The thing that the article hits on (although lightly) is the fact that flirting can be done just for fun. This is another reason why I think DJs should flirt more. Instead of getting frustrated that a woman is just jerking you around by flirting, give her a taste of her own medicine!
Even better, start friendly rivalries between women to vie for your flirtatious attention. One bit of suggestion is not to include women you are actively sarging in these games. When you interact with them, let it be apparent that your flirtations are a bit more specifically directed and customized for her and her alone.
The thing that the article hits on (although lightly) is the fact that flirting can be done just for fun. This is another reason why I think DJs should flirt more. Instead of getting frustrated that a woman is just jerking you around by flirting, give her a taste of her own medicine!
Even better, start friendly rivalries between women to vie for your flirtatious attention. One bit of suggestion is not to include women you are actively sarging in these games. When you interact with them, let it be apparent that your flirtations are a bit more specifically directed and customized for her and her alone.