“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Interesting article on flirting from a psychology point
- Thread starter Jaun_Don
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
JackPrescott
Banned
- Joined
- Apr 19, 2005
- Messages
- 860
- Reaction score
- 7
Very interesting and true. BUT, there are the women who like to "flirt for flirting's sake" and have no real sexual interest in those men they choose to flirt with. In this case, I believe they flirt for the sakes of their own egos. They love it when they get male attention, "AKA Attention (w)hores" BUT if the male takes it too far, as he is genetically programmed to, they get disgusted, and ask him to back off. They want to do the little mating rituals, without actually wanting to mate. As a male, this makes as much sense to me, as sitting on a toilet without needing to relieve one's self. It is a big waste of time, energy and effort for both parties. As a male, I will only SPECIFICALLY flirt with a female I wish to copuate with. Imagine flirting with unattractive females you had no interest in?
i ****ing hate transyes ....
there should be a law that says they have to tell people they make out with or even flirt with that theyr transies... Like a aids...
thank god that i havetn met one yet , just hate the thought of what if that girl ur talking to is actually a male...
about the rest of the text yeah sounds to me like that these women are AH , flirting only to boost theyr ego....
there should be a law that says they have to tell people they make out with or even flirt with that theyr transies... Like a aids...
thank god that i havetn met one yet , just hate the thought of what if that girl ur talking to is actually a male...
about the rest of the text yeah sounds to me like that these women are AH , flirting only to boost theyr ego....
yes sadly I live with one I get all the hair twirling, hair flicking etc...and I do see this girl loves attention and is quite fond of drama, I wouldn't have a relationship with this girl as she is hard work and HM but I am still drawn to her and strangely attracted to her....I have someone else I am courting at the moment and believe me I have had some interesting and forward comments about this one from the room mate.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Well there are chicks that flirt with everyone that's for sure.
You can tell if they are in to you though when you get em alone and you call their bluff.
But flirting with every girl is good practice too. It makes the homely ones happy and keeps your game high.
Plus the mere fact that you work the material on all of em, means you don't put a hottie on a pedestal. You give her the same stuff you give a war hog. Minus the neg hits. A war hog might punch you for some of them!
You can tell if they are in to you though when you get em alone and you call their bluff.
But flirting with every girl is good practice too. It makes the homely ones happy and keeps your game high.
Plus the mere fact that you work the material on all of em, means you don't put a hottie on a pedestal. You give her the same stuff you give a war hog. Minus the neg hits. A war hog might punch you for some of them!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
No one has ever said that only women can have fun flirting. Yeah I know, there are those that say that DJs shouldn't flirt but if you are already charismatic, its already a part of your persona.
The thing that the article hits on (although lightly) is the fact that flirting can be done just for fun. This is another reason why I think DJs should flirt more. Instead of getting frustrated that a woman is just jerking you around by flirting, give her a taste of her own medicine!
Even better, start friendly rivalries between women to vie for your flirtatious attention. One bit of suggestion is not to include women you are actively sarging in these games. When you interact with them, let it be apparent that your flirtations are a bit more specifically directed and customized for her and her alone.
The thing that the article hits on (although lightly) is the fact that flirting can be done just for fun. This is another reason why I think DJs should flirt more. Instead of getting frustrated that a woman is just jerking you around by flirting, give her a taste of her own medicine!
Even better, start friendly rivalries between women to vie for your flirtatious attention. One bit of suggestion is not to include women you are actively sarging in these games. When you interact with them, let it be apparent that your flirtations are a bit more specifically directed and customized for her and her alone.