niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Met a hb 7 at my Friend's house. Was asking me alot of questions, playing with her hair, then asked to add me on facebook and told me to accept it, is this a sign of interest??
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Interested?
- Thread starter niceguytoalphamale
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Serenity
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My guess is as good as yours. Indicators like that doesn't mean sh!t. Only trying to get what you want, pushing forwards and meeting little resistance is a good indicator.
People add friends on Facebook for anything or nothing, doesn't mean they want to jump on your d!ck.
People add friends on Facebook for anything or nothing, doesn't mean they want to jump on your d!ck.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
They always play with their hair.
marmel75
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Dont ever add a chick on social media...its used merely to disqualify you most times, nothing good can come out of it...
You should have gotten her number at the party and then set something up.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Avoid facebook and instagram (unless she follows you first)
Snapchat (if she adds you back, delete her if she doesn't) is good, anything that isn't a place where women collect followers is good because she can only be adding you to keep in touch with you, not for extra likes and comments on her selfies
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.