niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Met a hb 7 at my Friend's house. Was asking me alot of questions, playing with her hair, then asked to add me on facebook and told me to accept it, is this a sign of interest??
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Interested?
- Thread starter niceguytoalphamale
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Serenity
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My guess is as good as yours. Indicators like that doesn't mean sh!t. Only trying to get what you want, pushing forwards and meeting little resistance is a good indicator.
People add friends on Facebook for anything or nothing, doesn't mean they want to jump on your d!ck.
People add friends on Facebook for anything or nothing, doesn't mean they want to jump on your d!ck.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
They always play with their hair.
marmel75
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Dont ever add a chick on social media...its used merely to disqualify you most times, nothing good can come out of it...
You should have gotten her number at the party and then set something up.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Avoid facebook and instagram (unless she follows you first)
Snapchat (if she adds you back, delete her if she doesn't) is good, anything that isn't a place where women collect followers is good because she can only be adding you to keep in touch with you, not for extra likes and comments on her selfies
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.