niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Met a hb 7 at my Friend's house. Was asking me alot of questions, playing with her hair, then asked to add me on facebook and told me to accept it, is this a sign of interest??
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Interested?
- Thread starter niceguytoalphamale
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Serenity
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My guess is as good as yours. Indicators like that doesn't mean sh!t. Only trying to get what you want, pushing forwards and meeting little resistance is a good indicator.
People add friends on Facebook for anything or nothing, doesn't mean they want to jump on your d!ck.
People add friends on Facebook for anything or nothing, doesn't mean they want to jump on your d!ck.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
They always play with their hair.
marmel75
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Dont ever add a chick on social media...its used merely to disqualify you most times, nothing good can come out of it...
You should have gotten her number at the party and then set something up.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Avoid facebook and instagram (unless she follows you first)
Snapchat (if she adds you back, delete her if she doesn't) is good, anything that isn't a place where women collect followers is good because she can only be adding you to keep in touch with you, not for extra likes and comments on her selfies
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.